[feelingreyt]

Ok, I know I have complained A LOT lately about our son's biofamily, but I honestly have no where else to turn. They are driving me nuts! It does not help that they are related to us!
First off, Finally, "H"(bmom) decides she wants a visit. About 30 mins before we were to pick her up we get a phone call saying she's not coming, will try again some other time. Ok, no big deal, except this is not a pattern I will not tolerate. Either you want to see him or not. He is too young right now to understand any of this, but as he gets older he will understand, and I can not allow him to be hurt.
Then I get a call from bgreatgrandma telling me that bgrandma is so mad at me that she can't even repeat what was said! Well whoopdeedo! I could care less, except, bgreatgrandma lied to bgrandma just for the sole purpose of making me out to be the bad guy instead of "H"! Now that is just wrong!
These people are family of my dh's and I'm getting to the point that I just want to scream at them for being complete and total idiots! They love drama and chaos.
I have already been contemplating cutting off contact with bgrandma because she is toxic and unstable. I always thought bgreatgrandma was fairly normal and honest. Well not anymore! Why did she even call me anyway? I think she enjoys the drama as much as her daughter! And "H" is proving to be very ungrateful for all the help we have given her. Plus, she still expects help! I'm just sick to death of being used, lied to and lied about.
I'm sorry to keep ranting on and on. It seems like every day or so something new comes up! Oh well......
I'm seriously thinking about calling the bgrandma myself and just telling her the truth. Then end the call with something like, all contact between us is over! I guess that might make family reunions alittle awkward, but then again, I really dont' care! I'm just sick of them.
WOW, I don't sound very Christian like at all. That is sad. God tells us not to carrying a grudge and to forgive as we are forgiven. Right now I'm having a really hard time with that. If you have Faith in God, please pray for me. I need it. And they need prayer as well.
Thanks!

[BlessedbySnuggs]

I'm so sorry you are having to go through all of this...you and your family will definitely be in my thoughts and prayers. Believe me, I completely understand how difficult it can be. Hugs to you!

ETA: We try so hard because we love our kids so, so much!

[loveajax]

hang in there, feeling.....you don't deserve disrespect or chaos, remember that. even if they are relatives, they seem not to be acting like "family."

[feelingreyt]

Thank you Blessed and loveajax.