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Old 07-26-2008, 05:27 PM
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Not to be a Pollyanna but...

I noticed that the poster recognizes that these feelings are unhealthy. S/he said s/he doesn't like the hatred she feels and she wants to understand it. So although I agree the post is harsh and pretty depressing, at least this person is seeking some insight. I hope he/she finds it soon because that adopted child is in a very unhealthy and possibly dangerous situation living with someone with such unresolved feelings of hate.
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Old 07-26-2008, 07:51 PM
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I smell a troll. Just my .02
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Old 07-27-2008, 05:32 AM
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It would be a troll if he came to an adoption site and posted that kind of stuff. It's not on an adoption site so it's not a troll.

A troll chooses his targets carefully, and makes sure to post about the topic of the forums. That's how he'll get the most out of his trolling.

I think it's just a guy that has issues...
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Old 07-27-2008, 06:55 AM
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Is it a guy??? I thought it was a girl.
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Old 07-27-2008, 08:57 AM
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I thought it was a girl as well. Hmm??

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Is it a guy??? I thought it was a girl.
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Old 07-27-2008, 01:36 PM
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The poster may be aware that his/her emotions are unhealthy, but the complete lack of maturity and apparent lack of education may suggest some developmental delays. Possibly this person is still living with his/her sister because they really are unable to live on their own. Possibly the "saving for a car" is really just a fantasy. Whatever the circumstance, I would not want this 30 year old anywhere near my child or anyone else's. I wonder if the "sister" has any idea about her sibling's feelings or is in denial.
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