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Old 05-28-2008, 06:44 AM
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How old are your child's birthparents?

How old was your child's birtparents at birth? How old are they now? Were they single or married at time of birth? Does your child have any full blooded siblings that are NOT adopted?

My daughter's birthparents were 32 & 34 (married) when my daughter was born. They are now 35 & 37 (still married). My daughter has two older bio brothers and one older bio sister who are being raised together.

I am just curious.. that's all!
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Old 05-28-2008, 06:53 AM
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My daughter's bparents were 25 & 27

For Kelcee's bmom this was her 4th live birth.

She has 2 full sibs and 2 half sibs.

They are not married as they need state aid.
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DD's birth parents are now 26 and 23 (and were 23 and 20 when she was born). They married after she was born and have an older and younger daughter that they are parenting.
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DD's birth parents were 18 and 19 when she was born and are now 19 and 20. They were married when she was born, and as far as we know they still are.
DD has one older bio sister who is being raised by her paternal grandmother.
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DD's birthmom is 35. She has a 17 year old half sister and two half brothers who are 5 and 6. I don't know anything about her birthdad.
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DD's birthparents were 21 and 19 at the time of her birth. They are now 23 and 21. They are no longer together. We currently only have contact with DD's birthdad.
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Natalie's bparents were 19 and 20 when she was born....they are now 21 and (just turned) 23. They are not married. Nat has a full bio brother that her bmom is parenting; however, bdad is not involved in raising him nor is he involved in our open adoption.
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DS's bmom was 20 and I think bdad was 35. They are now 21 and 36. They were not married and are no longer together. In fact, bdad was in jail when they found out she was preg. He was released on bond and ran. He never claimed DS.
DS has 1 full sister and 2 half sisters, all of which are older than him. Right now bmom is in cout appointed rehab so the girls are not with her. Her plan is to get them back after she gets out.
The thing is, the older dd has only lived with her grandmother. Bmom has been in and out of the house. The other girls are with a family friend.
DS's bdad has had no contact and is running from the law. The other dad has never supported the 2 older girls and is also in and out of jail. All 3 bparents are drug addicted convicts. It is so sad.

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My DS's birth parents were 16 and 18 when he was born. He will have a full brother or sister in about 5 months. They are not married.
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DD's Birthmom was 15 and Birthdad was 18. Birthmom is now 16.
I had the opportunity to spend time iwth them...they are amazing kids!!! Love 'em!!!
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My twins birthmother was 27 at the time of their birth and the bfather was just shy of 21, now 31 and almost 25, not married. They have a half brother and half sister that live with their bmother.

Our daughter's bmother is 19 and bf is about to be 19, she has a full brother and sister living with bmom. They just broke up too and are not married. She did say to me when our daughter was born that she and he planned to have more about 5 years down the road. I thought to myself, how will I explain this to our daughter that she kept the first two, gave her up and had more later and kept them too?

In both situations though, DFACS has been involved and in fact, the boy's brother and sister have been in and out of foster care but I think are presently with their bmom, although, their dad keeps trying to get them too.
In our daughter's siblings situation, there is drug involvement and she is constantly being tested.
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Oops! Dd has no siblings. Although if Bmom got pg again and asked us to adopt we couldn't say no. Bmom and Bdad are no longer together.
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DD birth mom was 25 and bdad 36. (now 26 and 37). They are married and parenting a full bio brother who is 4. Their are also 2 half bio brothers by bfather's first marriage. Their will be no more from him as he had a vas. I spent many nights worrying about how I will explain to my beautiful daughter that her full brother is being raised by her bio parents. I am so afraid that she will think there was something wrong with her because she was a girl. However , I think that was the hardest part of her bio parents placing her. They knew it was their last and only shot at a daughter. Although I am not thankful they had to place, I am thankful that the thought everything through and did what they felt was best for her.
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My daughter's birthmother was/still is 23 years old. My daughter has at least one 1/2 biosibling that I know of. We have no information about her birthfather (age? other children?) as he was not in a relationship with dd's bmom.
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Old 05-28-2008, 08:10 AM
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startedover, i have had the same fears...especially since DD's birth mom was pg within a year of placing DD and is parenting that child (DD is the "middle child" of three, at least for now). there were different circumstances (but I worry that to a young kid, it will be hard to "see" that).
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