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01-12-2008, 10:14 AM
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Chug Chug Chug!
This rollercoaster started up hill again this AM! I woke up to my DH giving me my ringing cell phone telling me it was one of our agencies. First she says on our paperwork where it said County, I put US...oppps! Then she says she's calling be about a birth mom that just went into labor!!!!!! I said SURE! submit us. Then she asked if I wanted to hear about the situation
 I said well sure, but if you're calling, you must know it fits our specfications! It sounds like a great situation with only one exception...expectant father is planning to contest the adoption, but he's in jail long term! We decided to go for it, but I am going to call our social worker ans ask what she thinks...Anyway, if you could send positive thoughts and prayers our way, we would REALLY appreciate it!Take Care everyone!
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Our journey...http://callahancrew.blogspot.com/ Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not. ~Dr. Seuss 10/07 - We start home study visits, requirements, and paperwork! 12/07 - Approved to adopt. 01/28/08 - Tyler is in our arms! He is less that 48 hours old! 11/15/08 - FINALIZE in St. Louis on National Adoption Day! 06/22/09 - Maybe we should do this again?  06/25/09 - Start the official paperwork to update our home study and make Tyler a big brother.  07/13/09 - Match with a 2.5 month old baby BOY!  07/28/09 - Matty is in our arms!    Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Diet Plans 
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#2
01-12-2008, 10:25 AM
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Good heavens!!!! Congratulations on the potential match, and we are sending prayers your way!!!
(By the way, wasn't it you who posted just yesterday about the "timing" with your job?!?)
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01-12-2008, 10:26 AM
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ok - positive thoughts coming your way!
good luck today!
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01-12-2008, 10:27 AM
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omg, aclee!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! fingers crossed....please keep us posted! karen
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01-12-2008, 10:39 AM
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Sending positive thoughts your way!
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Kathy BS-26 - my movie buff SS-18- my karate kid BD-17 - my dancer BS-10 - my piano player AD-9 - my tomboy Adoption finalized 12-20-07!!
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01-12-2008, 10:49 AM
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YUP! This would be so amazing!
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Our journey...http://callahancrew.blogspot.com/ Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not. ~Dr. Seuss 10/07 - We start home study visits, requirements, and paperwork! 12/07 - Approved to adopt. 01/28/08 - Tyler is in our arms! He is less that 48 hours old! 11/15/08 - FINALIZE in St. Louis on National Adoption Day! 06/22/09 - Maybe we should do this again? 06/25/09 - Start the official paperwork to update our home study and make Tyler a big brother. 07/13/09 - Match with a 2.5 month old baby BOY! 07/28/09 - Matty is in our arms! Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Diet Plans
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01-12-2008, 11:07 AM
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Sending thoughts your way
Nice way to wake up huh!
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Home Study Started 07/20/06 Signed with Agency 08/11/06 Home Study Complete 9/21/06 Matched 10/22/06 Match Failed 11/08/06 Matched Again 5/31/07 It's a Girl! Madison was born on 10/18/07 Finalized 06/16/08  
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01-12-2008, 11:30 AM
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Positive thoughts and baby dust heading your direction!
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 2-5-07 Signed with an agency  6-5-07 We are officially waiting for a match!  2-07-08  We got the call We're Matched!  It's a Boy3-30-08 Got the call- Baby is on his way- So are we  3-31-08 Baby boy born  4-4-08 We are home! 6-28-08 First visit with birthparents- Good day!!!! 8-20-08 Adoption finalized in the courts8-30-08 Finalization documents received
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01-12-2008, 11:35 AM
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Rollercoaster is right!!! Sending everything positive for the right ending to this situation... (((Hugs))) on it all.
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01-12-2008, 11:54 AM
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Congrats! No kidding... I just learned first hand this week how much of a rollercoaster this journey can be. I hope that you have a baby in your arms very soon!
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Jessica Proud Air Force Wife  11/07 Application to Agency 12/5/07 Homestudy Complete 12/19/07 We are matched Baby girl due 1/24/08 1/10/08 Match failed. 15 y/o Pbm decided to parent. 1/11/08 Back to waiting...  2/4/08 Pbm changed her mind and asked if we would adopt her baby 2/7/08 Flew to WA to pick up our baby girl (3 weeks old at placement)
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01-12-2008, 12:30 PM
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I'm so sorry your match failed. I hope you find another match again as soon as you guys are ready for it! best of luck!
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Our journey...http://callahancrew.blogspot.com/ Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not. ~Dr. Seuss 10/07 - We start home study visits, requirements, and paperwork! 12/07 - Approved to adopt. 01/28/08 - Tyler is in our arms! He is less that 48 hours old! 11/15/08 - FINALIZE in St. Louis on National Adoption Day! 06/22/09 - Maybe we should do this again? 06/25/09 - Start the official paperwork to update our home study and make Tyler a big brother. 07/13/09 - Match with a 2.5 month old baby BOY! 07/28/09 - Matty is in our arms! Created by MyFitnessPal.com - Free Diet Plans
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01-12-2008, 01:50 PM
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What a wonderful scenerio to wake up too!!! lol, I'm sending love and prayers your way, hope this is it. Can the BF really contest if he is going to be in jail/prison long term??
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Lisa Informational session 04/29/07 The paperwork begins 05/01/07  Application submitted 06/13/07 Homestudy complete 07/26/07 1st draft complete of profile book 08/10/07 2nd draft submitted 08/27/07  Officially waiting 09/07/07 MATCHED 02/05/08 baby girl due 02/28/08 Baby girl born 03/03/08 
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01-12-2008, 02:23 PM
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You're in my prayers!
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01-12-2008, 04:57 PM
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What a great way to wake up. I would guard my heart a bit though. The "birthfather in jail contesting adoption" is why our recent placement failed. He wrote letters and had court appointed attorneys file legal action contesting the adoption, all from his cell. We rode it out for a bit (and spent $4K in legals we weren't expecting) before the courts decided he had a legal right to baby if expectant mom wanted to relinquish her rights. Baby was placed with his mother pending his release from prison (no less than 6 years from now). That's the system for you. This was in California, so hopefully your state has better laws. Good luck!
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01-12-2008, 05:57 PM
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OMG I can't wait to hear more!
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