[NicNic]

My heart is breaking. Our baby died. We were chosen by a wonderful birthfamily who were expecting in August. She went into labor today and the baby was dead. It seems as if the baby died a couple of weeks ago. It's chest was sunken, no fluid in the womb. Not real sure what happened exactly. Weird thing is, we just felt the baby move. The dr. said that it was probably the uterus contracting and moving the body around. My heart is breaking for her, my heart is breaking for us. My head is spinning. This is a nightmare.

We decided to name the baby 'Angel'. *sigh*

[lahdh4]

I am so sorry to read this. I am sorry for everyone. (((HUGS)))

[kakuehl]

My heart aches for you. Be gentle with yourself and allow yourself to grieve. Perhaps together with the bfamily you could plan a funeral/memorial service.

[akcskye]

Oh God, I am so sorry. For ALL of you.

Please be sure to care for yourselves, but for your birth mother, too...I agree with possibly planning a memorial or just anything that helps her not only know that you truly cared...but also so that she doesn't feel like she's "let you down"...I know that when I've miscarried, I felt like I let my whole family down...that's the only reason I mention that.

This has got to be SO hard for all of you...you're in my prayers.

(((HUGS)))

[taterman]

I am so, so, so, so , so, so sorry. You will be with her again one day. I promise. Give your birth mother hugs from all of us.

[mom2GRLC]

I am so sorry for your loss.

I just had a miscarriage myself this last week....after 8 1/2 years of trying and after just hearing and seeing our little ones heartbeat 2 weeks before. It's such a deep loss that you just can't prepare yourself for.

I can't imagine ....the pain and sadness that must be there....when you all had come soooo close to making it to the end....and holding that little one in your arms.

God bless all of you as you experience this great loss and sadness, our thougths and prayers go out to you and all those involved.

(((((HUGS)))))

[Untbunny]

My heart goes out to both bfamily and afamily. A family member suffered the same sorrow years before successfully adopting. Eleven years later I can still feel the pain of knowing she lost the little one. Allow yourself to grieve through this. You are part of his family.

[AdoptInMe]

Oh, I am so sorry for you all. That is so sad.

[lonni]

((((((NICNIC)))))))) and family. I am so sorry your sweet little darling has passed away.

[fastaff]

Words can't express my feelings of sorrow for all involved. You will be in my prayers.....take all the time you need to grieve, wow...how terribly sad.....

[bromanchik]

I am so sorry for your loss. Please call me if you need to. I will be here all day tomorrow.

[nikkianni]

There are no words. I'm so very sorry for your loss. I will keep all of you in my prayers.

[jaenelle]

I'm so sorry.

[Kat-L]

Originally Posted by NicNic

My heart is breaking. Our baby died. We were chosen by a wonderful birthfamily who were expecting in August. She went into labor today and the baby was dead. It seems as if the baby died a couple of weeks ago. It's chest was sunken, no fluid in the womb. Not real sure what happened exactly. Weird thing is, we just felt the baby move. The dr. said that it was probably the uterus contracting and moving the body around. My heart is breaking for her, my heart is breaking for us. My head is spinning. This is a nightmare.

We decided to name the baby 'Angel'. *sigh*

I'm so incredibly sorry for you. Although her life was too short, Angel was deeply, deeply loved. I'm sure on some level, she knew this.

[ChristieS]

Oh ((((NicNic))) I am so very sorry. I can not imagine the pain and loss you are feeling. Let yourself grieve, be kind to yourself, give yourself time. I am so sorry.