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Originally Posted By Denny

I have a friend that is still very angry at 44 years old about being given up for adoption. I offered to find his birthparents (mainly to see his reaction) and it was positive. He doesn't want to interfer with anyone's lives - or upset his parents. I don't know that he would even meet them - but thought I would seek advice from people who have been there. I don't even know actually how to go about this process but when I set my mind to something I generally succeed. If anyone can offer advice - positive or negative I could sure use some. Thank you for all responses. btw - I've always considered adopted kids more special than myself . . . they were chosen . . I was an accident and I'm not trying to be mean. I have pics of him now and he's trying to get some baby pics and more info. He was born 4/22/54 in Rheinland (spelling questionable), Wisconsin. But has little info other than that. thanks again.