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  #8026  
Old 04-23-2009, 08:10 AM
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Waiting and Forever -- That is so awesome for you!!!

Mom2Max -- Sorry for you crappy day!!!

Me-- I am wondering how long it takes to get my profile on the agency's website. Dropped it off Monday and it's still not on there. Waiting is not my strong suit and this whole process is about waiting. blech!
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2009: moving on to domestic infant adoption
1/13/09: consult
2/6/09: application
3/2/09: Adoption Awareness Mtg
3/5/09: 1st mtg w caseworker
3/12/09: 2nd mtg w caseworker
3/26/09: 3rd mtg/home mtg w caseworker
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4/15/09: home study approved. officially waiting.
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Old 04-23-2009, 09:27 AM
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I'm no good at waiting either. It gives me hope to see all the happy posts on this thread, but makes me even more impatient Congratulations to all of you with good news. I hope the rest of us get good news soon.
Mom2Max I'm sorry it was a bad day. I know how you feel. My husband and I seem to be constantly surrounded by other peoples babies and none of our own.
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Old 04-23-2009, 10:07 AM
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Congrats to Waiting and Forever!!!!!
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Old 04-23-2009, 11:27 AM
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Waiting - CONGRATULATIONS!!!

Forever - Good luck tomorrow. Bet you can't wait to get that little bundle in your arms!
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Old 04-23-2009, 12:13 PM
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I wanna see pictures!!!!

Congrats Waiting and Forever!
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Old 04-23-2009, 01:05 PM
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Very excited for you both! Hope everything is going smoothly and looking forward to pictures.
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Old 04-23-2009, 01:34 PM
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Congrats to all the new moms! Wow, maybe that baby dust really does work! Or there's something to that spring baby boom theory. I hope so!

We were told about a situation with an 8-year-old boy. Our age limit is 6, but it's so hard to stick to a limit when you hear about and see pics of an actual child. I wanted to go for it, but my DH was freaked about by his age and some other factors. I tried to talk him into it, but ultimately he wasn't on board, so we aren't being profiled. I'm just nervous because of his age and situation that there won't be many takers at our facilitator for this child. DH agreed that if they can't find a family for him, we would think about it again. It's so hard once I see a photo of a child and hear his story. I get so emotionally involved, thinking about all this child has and will have to go through. I just hope they find a really wonderful family for him.

And I hope our child comes along soon! I have a feeling we're going to be toward the shorter end of our facilitator's wait spectrum (they say 9 to 16 months for Caucasian couples ... we're at 5 months now) because we keep responding positively to harder-to-place situations, which pop up about every three weeks. This is the first one in months we haven't said yes to.
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1/09 Profiled and spoke to bmom for sibset of 3 ... had to back out
3/09 Profiled and spoke to bmom for 6yo boy ... not chosen
8/09 Failed match for 4yo boy ... bparents changed their minds when we were on our way to meet them
8/09 15yo cousin considered placing baby w/ us but decided to parent
9/09 Failed match for 7yo boy ... dad decided to fight mom for custody rather than sign consent
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Old 04-23-2009, 06:31 PM
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We have thrown our hat in the ring on a possible placement of a little boy with some special needs. I'm really hoping we are chosen!!! They are placing him the first of next week. Prayers and baby dust would be appreciated!!!!

Also, good luck tomorrow Forever!!
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Old 04-23-2009, 09:49 PM
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Crystalp~ Prayers, best wishes and tons of baby dust heading your way!
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2-07-08 We got the call We're Matched! It's a Boy
3-30-08 Got the call- Baby is on his way- So are we
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Old 04-24-2009, 05:53 AM
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Forever, It's 8:52 and i just logged on and saw you will be in nyc right now waiting to see the baby!!!!! YAY!!!!!!
I live 20mins from there I wish I could go and see your face! Can't wait to hear how evrything goes. Good Luck!
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Old 04-24-2009, 09:18 AM
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We were matched yesterday with 2 sibs J is 5 and M is 2- we go to the paper staffing next Thursday to get all the info. We are beyond excited and now need to bunker down and get the rooms/house ready for them!!
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April 23rd matched with 5 2 and moving forward!!!
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Old 04-24-2009, 10:39 AM
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Please toss a ton of baby dust our way! We need so much baby dust!
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10/20/08- Orientation about Foster care and Adoption
11/1/08- Started MAPP Classes
1/31/09- Received MAPP Certificate of completion
3/17/09- Received background check clearance
5/27/09-Home study officially approved
6/29/09- Home Officially opened and on "THE LIST"
8/13/09- Received license in the mail
11/13/09- rang regarding a 2 month old and 2 year old as possible matches
11/16/09- Paternal Family filed papers for custody of 2 year old :sad:
11/17/09- Informed 2 month old actually a and judge wants her placed in Pre-adoptive home ASAP
11/23/09- Told Foster Mom wants to try keep 2 month old. Waiting for Law guardian decision

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Old 04-24-2009, 10:46 AM
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Baby dust to everyone!!!
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Old 04-24-2009, 06:03 PM
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Waiting...congrats on coming home with baby! Cant wait to see pics!

Forever...I am guessing you are driving home with your new little angel...
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Old 04-24-2009, 08:42 PM
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We just found out we were chosen to be the parents of a baby boy born on Monday.
Baby is in NJ and we were told we'll have to stay there for approx 3 weeks. We are a little worried about how that will go with our toddler but we are over the moon. Trying to think of names now...

Hope it works out for you Crystalp.
Can't believe we are joining your ranks Waiting and Forever!
Congrats Triciansil!
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