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Heather, I am so happy for you. I can understand the long wait, and it is so exciting to know that you finally have your baby in your arms. I can only imagine how special that is for you. Cuddle her and love her bunches. Hope your ICPC goes through quickly.
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1st DD Hannah Nicole received her wings, July 03 ![]() 2nd DD May 94 ![]() 12yr ttc Began adoption July 07 Possible match family placement Oct. 07 Fell through Nov. 07 ![]() Jan. 08 Got call ....not chosen by emom 03-07-08 Matched - emom due March 11th Call 03-08-08, lead 4 families to think they were going to parent her baby ![]() Call 03-10-08, she wasn't even pregnant ![]() Waiting again. 03-17-08 Had to turn down baby girl, couldn't get flight before discharge Our hearts are breaking and waiting again. 04-29-08 Got call....not chosen by emom due in June 06-17-08 Got call....not chosen by emom due July 6th Profiled 07-18-08 for emom due in Nov. - emom decided to parent 08-25-08 Profiled 07-25-08 for emom due in Oct. - never heard back from emom Profiled 08-12-08 for emom due in Sept. - never heard back from emom Trying not to get discouraged, but getting more difficult every day.
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Crystalp .. I'm so sorry about your frustration. I can't imagine the long wait. Reading all the posts here .. it does seem as though it eventually works out .. I wish you the best of luck.
We found out yesterday (our first report), that we were presented five times in October. We were presented with about 50 other couples. We were not in the top three for any of the birthmom. However, our agency said this is very normal and they don't do anything or worry about it for at least six months. It was exciting just to hear birthmom were looking at our profile. TAP
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Married Dog Died of Cancer this year 2 IVF (one ectopic, one mc) 2 IUI .. nada Oct. '08 Completed Home Study and Signed With Agency April '09 Matched. Mother reclaimed after one week. May '09 Matched. WE HAVE A LITTLE GIRL. November/Decmeber Adoption should be final Updating Homestudy Waiting for #2 TAP |
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Congratulations, Hmarie!!!
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meghann mama to Julia born 11.26.2008 placed in our arms with love by her first mother, 11.27.2008 ![]() a different kind of family - living and writing in open adoption Open Adoption—AdoptionBlogs.com |
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KLL08 - I will say lots of prayers that today is the day!!
Hmarie68 - Congratulations on your new daughter! Hope ICPC goes through fast and you are home soon with your little one. |
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Congrats Hmarie!!
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dd born 12/01 dd/ds twins born 5/04 Started Domestic Adoption Process 6/10/07 Matched to Day Old Baby Boy 10/24/07 Match Failed 10/25/07 Decided to Switch to Foster/Adopt 3/1/08 Licensed!! 8/11/08 Placements: T 2 Yrs Old 4-13-09 to 4-15-09 - Went to Kinship
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Crystal-I know I am a little late so hopefully you are feeling better but here are some
You can put them in your pocket for later KLL-I am keeping my fingers crossed for you! Hmarie-congrats! 7 weeks and counting for our baby girl to arrive! Sometimes I think that the waiting is going by quickly and other times I feel that I may jump out of my skin! We have been spending a lot of time with N-even my sister and her are close! She will also things like, "look what you have to look forward too," when we see a baby and I just can not help but think this is it! I know I am trying to stay cautious, but when she refers to my sister as Aunt K or introduces us as her baby's parents I can not help but get so excited! Baby dust to everyone! ![]() |
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So I have an update...the birthmother would like to meet us, along with the other 2 families presented. So we are having coffee with her tomorrow afternoon along with the attorney. The attorney said it will be very casual, but I am really looking forward to tomorrow. I'm a little nervous, but I really believe this is a step in the right direction!
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Started our adoption journey on 12/30/07 We were Chosen by Birthmom- 11/24/08 Baby girl born 12/7-we were there for her birth Finalized 4/17 The m/c's, the infertility, the waiting, the failed matches, it has all been worth it to have our beautiful baby S. She was meant to be ours we just had to wait for her to come along! Our God is so Good!!! ![]()
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Yay Kll08!! Good luck tomorrow.
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dd born 12/01 dd/ds twins born 5/04 Started Domestic Adoption Process 6/10/07 Matched to Day Old Baby Boy 10/24/07 Match Failed 10/25/07 Decided to Switch to Foster/Adopt 3/1/08 Licensed!! 8/11/08 Placements: T 2 Yrs Old 4-13-09 to 4-15-09 - Went to Kinship
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Yes, good luck!!! It's an exciting step!!
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Just Be Yourself! Everthing Is Going To Be Ok,dear One. I Will Pray For You. I Know Your Concerned, Enjoy Yor Coffee& Think About Your The Baby. All My Love,xoxo Nana Jane
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Good luck, KLL! I'd be nervous, too, but I'm sure you'll do great. Just be yourself & all that other good advice.
![]() In other news...we were presented to an expectant mother last week but weren't picked. When our caseworker called to tell us we weren't chosen, she told me about two other em's they were presenting profiles to, and we agreed to be shown to both of them. She told me they'd be meeting with both of these women this week but I have no idea exactly when or how long it will take for a decision to be made. (The em last week decided within 48 hours; the other time we were shown to an em we didn't hear for a week. I know that in "baby-born" situations they hear quickly but there doesn't seem to be a set time frame for situations that are farther out.) So I'm going crazy waiting to hear. And my H is also going crazy, which is driving me crazier, lol. Any good thoughts anyone feels like sending our way would be greatly appreciated. ![]()
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meghann mama to Julia born 11.26.2008 placed in our arms with love by her first mother, 11.27.2008 ![]() a different kind of family - living and writing in open adoption Open Adoption—AdoptionBlogs.com |
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Best of luck Meghann! I hope you have wonderful news to share soon. I go crazy every time I know we are being presented...it's soo nerve racking!
Thank you all for your warm wishes, I hope that I have even better news this weekend to share!
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Started our adoption journey on 12/30/07 We were Chosen by Birthmom- 11/24/08 Baby girl born 12/7-we were there for her birth Finalized 4/17 The m/c's, the infertility, the waiting, the failed matches, it has all been worth it to have our beautiful baby S. She was meant to be ours we just had to wait for her to come along! Our God is so Good!!! ![]()
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Heather .. CONGRATULATIONS.
That is very exciting. The best to you and your family We received our final final home study in the mail yesterday. There was one little mistake in it. But, frankly, I am not going to have her redo anything. I am just so glad it is done and in our hands. So, we are officially with an agency and "homestudy ready." We are very excited. I'm now starting to think about if I should decorate our extra room for a baby .. but, a little hesitatant to do so .. because I know I still may have a very long road. Tara
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Married Dog Died of Cancer this year 2 IVF (one ectopic, one mc) 2 IUI .. nada Oct. '08 Completed Home Study and Signed With Agency April '09 Matched. Mother reclaimed after one week. May '09 Matched. WE HAVE A LITTLE GIRL. November/Decmeber Adoption should be final Updating Homestudy Waiting for #2 TAP |
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Omg Omg Omg Omg Omg
We've been chosen.
I have to call her tonight; she wants to talk to us on the phone. Please send good thoughts that she likes us as much when she talks to us as she did when she looked at our profile.
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meghann mama to Julia born 11.26.2008 placed in our arms with love by her first mother, 11.27.2008 ![]() a different kind of family - living and writing in open adoption Open Adoption—AdoptionBlogs.com |
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Congrats meghann! When is she due?
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Signed with facilitator 1/23/07 Profile completed & sent 2/07 M a t c h e d ! 8/23/07 Cameron is born 11/10/07 FINALIZED!!! 4/3/08 ![]() Cameron is diagnosed with Hypoplastic Left Heart Syndrome 11/10/07 Life is beautiful, but it's complicated. We barely make it. We don't need to understand, There are miracles, miracles. Yeah, life is beautiful. Our hearts, they beat and break. (Vega 4) |
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