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Old 11-29-2006, 01:24 PM
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Hey Leigh - sweet score!! I freecycle, but haven't gotten anything off it yet. I posted a few days ago looking for a Christmas tree but haven't had any responses yet. My mom had one for us, but she ended up getting rid of it and money's a bit tight right now so I really don't want to buy one, but will if I have to.
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Old 11-30-2006, 02:34 PM
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Okay, I don't post on this thread often, but Natalie, you are killing me here!!! I have been obsessively checking all day to see if you heard from the woman who e-mailed and to see how the meeting with the social worker went. Please update!!
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Old 11-30-2006, 02:43 PM
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WEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEELLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL

I got an email back!!!!!!!!!!!

Okay so I went home because it's hardly snowing here but everyone goes crazy in TX and snow, planning a vacation I was going to surprise my dh with and BAM email!!!

They wrote it together, a little about thier families, he wrote some of it and she wrote some of it, due in March, they just got back from the dr today (which is what i suspect they were waiting for) and heard the heartbeat.......then in the last sentence they put that they hoped we were interested (OMG ARE YOU KIDDING ME!? YES YES YES LOL) and that they wanted to get to know us and would let us know about the sex of the baby. OMG!!!!!!!

I really thought they picked someone else, changed thier minds, or something. I TOTALLY lost all faith. Wow. FREEEAKING out now. Freaking. I hope my email back was okay, it was long but thiers was too kwim? Leigh and Tara helped me (thanks guys!!)


Okay...going to go throw up now. LMAO

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OMG Natalie!!!!!!!
That's 5, count'em, 5 dancing bananas for you!!!

WOOOOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!

So.................how did the puking go????????

Seriously, though, WOW. I would also be totally FREAKING OUT. Wow. Wow! WOW!!!!!!!

Your mom must be thrilled that she helped set this up for you. You know she's never going to let you forget it, right???

What did dh say??? Is he remaining calm or doing the too?

And you have to hold out until MARCH???????? I don't think I'm going to make it that long - I don't know about you!!!

Renee - What happened? Any of the situations pan out????

Karyn - Umm, breastfeeding during the night??? Ok, don't know what to say about that. Uhhhhh - have fun? Good luck? Total about the baby boy, though!!!!!!!!!!!

Leigh - Finally!!! The homestudy is finally DONE!!!!!!! Then you'll just be like the rest of us. Well.............you already have been waiting like the rest of us, but now you'll be "officially" waiting. Uh-huh.

Laurie - how was the meeting????? Learn anything new?????

Sunflower - was unaware you were a stalker. Will be much more careful to watch for your name now!!! (ha ha ha ha bwa-hahahahahaha)


I've been little miss gourmet today. Or, little miss home cooking. I made corn muffins, chocolate chip banana bread, and am now making chili for supper. I don't know what the heck is wrong with me. Well, I know I'm dorky and everything.

At least J hasn't messed with his wound TODAY. Of course YESTERDAY was a different story - he picked a big chunk out of the healed part. UGH! Some people's kids. I was totally thinking of you, Leigh!!!!!!

Q is having yet another Little Mermaid day today. There just can't be enough of Little Mermaid.

Oh-oh. I'm back to the hospital to pick up J from therapy. Hopefully his therapist has discovered something new and exciting (and hopefully not scary) about J, or at least why he keeps messing with his scars. So.............off into the -5 degree weather, and yes, that's WITHOUT windchill. It's more like -15 or more with the wind.

Yah.................I LOVE NORTHERN MINNESOTA!!!!!!!!

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PS - OMG!!!!!!!!!! Busted by the Smilie Police AGAIN!!!!! Hello, shouldn't I warrant EXTRA smilies???? I'm usually using them for OTHER people! Hello!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 11-30-2006, 04:09 PM
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-5 sounds so warm after the -25 we've been having...but i'm not sure on the conversion...


Nice to see you think of me when you see bloody scabs...i'm honored!! lol

and Nat, you KNOW how excited I am for you....YIPPEE!!


I have no patience or compassion today....not to do with adoption.....just in general. When i was taking M to MOP's this morning, and he kept INSISTING we drive OUT OF TOWN (NO THAT WAY MOMMY!!) I turned up my christmas music and ignored...LOL...and did the same thing when I picked up M#2 from school...cranked the Christmas tunes....

Then...Im not sure if this is just because Ipersonally have been through alot in this area....but, my friend told me she had a miscarriage (a VERY early one...like a couple days later, kwim?) and I had to pretend to care. What's up with that? All I could think was...yeah, ok.

I think I'm turning into a cow.
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Old 11-30-2006, 04:21 PM
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Hey Gals,

What's up with the cold you guys are having? We are the exact opposite and it is unseasonably WARM here. It got up to 68 today!!!!!!

Natalie - WAYYY excited for you!!!!!!!!!!! I hope this is the one!

Sandy - Thanks for asking! {{{Hugs}}} We are being shown right now. Pbmom is due Dec 16th! Unknown gender baby, too, which is cool. So now we wait...and wait...and wait. She was given 6 profiles all together, so I am hoping ours is the one she likes of course! I'll keep you posted....think good thoughts!

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Old 11-30-2006, 04:50 PM
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Well, I've decided that I needed to have some contact with other people going through the same things that I am.

My husband and I have been on the offical adoptive parent list for 1 month and we have had alot of activity on our account and it has been an emotional roller coaster. I guess we will get used to the "ride".

Anyway, it is so hard sometimes to deal with other people. Today my half sister called to tell me some "good" news. My 17 year old niece is pregnant! Aaaaagh!!! I wanted to just scream!!! Apparently my niece and her boyfriend are going to keep the baby and get married. They have no money, no insurance, no home, no job. It is very frustrating to me.
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Old 11-30-2006, 06:19 PM
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Kansas, WELCOME!!

I hear ya...my nephew's girlfriend is also pregnant...but they haven't been dating long. My nephew's parents have WAY different morals than myself... (LIKE HUGE...think criminal) so I know they are not encouraging him to continue his education....so I pretty much see this as the end for him.

I'm so sad for him......I really had hoped he would "break the cycle" ya know?


Oh well...It's dh's half brother...they weren't raised together.....I dont much care for dh's brother or his commonlaw wifey...but I DO love the kids.

so sad.
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Natalie, just had to jump in so happy for you and DH!!!
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Old 11-30-2006, 07:16 PM
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Hugs Leigh, I'm feeling exactly the same way. I'm sooo irritable and wanting to strangle all my coworkers and patients - not good.
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LMAO Leigh and Tara...do you know that is how i felt this morning. My boss was like "Oh, hi! I didn't see you come in" I wanted to slap her. Is that bad? LOL

I think everyone has those days....your slappaeveryabody meter is just set to zero. Luckily our holdbackadaslappa meter is on (sort of).

Thank you all for the good wishes. I sure hope they don't wait until their next appt to contact us. She would be 24 weeks. When do they usually find out the sex? Maybe the little person won't show them.....

Anyways - thanks for all the help PLEASE pray for me to keep it under control and in GOD'S hands. Only He knows what He is doing.

Thanks!!

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Old 11-30-2006, 08:58 PM
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The problem with sexing a baby....the baby has to co-operate!! LOL. As for when, that just depends...apparently earlier is easier ...and its easier to sex a boy than a girl...


Just going by what my doctor friend told me.
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I think its around 19-20 weeks when you can tell the sex. But I could be wrong..

Oh how exciting this is! I can't wait to see your journey!
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My niece's baby's sex was determined at 18 weeks.

I'm having another great nephew!!!

If you want to be "cute" with her Natalie...tell her to drink a lot of water before her ultrasound.

I kid you not, this has worked for all I've recommended it to...if it's a boy, his little pee pee will be "wavin' in the womb" from the fluid!!! ROFLMAO

I've got about 3 or 4 pics of "little soldiers" from my friends from doing this hahaha
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