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Old 11-28-2006, 01:48 PM
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Okay so what...leight gets the "mom" one, you get the "i love ladybugs" and I get the spoiled brat and/or witch one....I didn't realize you thought so highly of me!! LMAO You know me too well.

Leigh - for god's sake I was PMS!! Everyone wears sweat pants when they are PMS! Right?
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Old 11-28-2006, 01:53 PM
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It's okay Nat...lol...we love you.
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Okay so how in the WORLD does an adoptive parent think it's okay to contact you through parentprofiles!?!?!! I mean come ON - do you know how hard my heart skipped a beat when I saw that email!?!?! STUPID STUPID! One just emailed me...saying "hey fellow texan, let's catch up! how's parentprofiles working out for ya?" etc etc. BLECH!!

thanks for letting me vent - i could not believe that!
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Old 11-28-2006, 02:33 PM
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Old 11-28-2006, 07:35 PM
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Okay so....I called them tonight. Noone answered, I left a message saying that I was just calling to introduce myself and see if they got them email I wrote them, then gave them my email/number again. So I guess we'll see. I was THIS CLOSE to throwing up. Ask Tara. I was a MESS and a half. dh had to work late so it was just me...but I'm glad I did it, and we'll see if they answer. Like dh said, maybe they are waiting for the weekend, or for them to be together again to call...who knows.

Maybe they changed thier minds also, I am just nervous to see what happens next. But in GRANDIOSO news I have my meeting tomorrow at 3:00 with the social worker!! yeah!! So we'll see how that goes, ttyl!!

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Old 11-28-2006, 08:59 PM
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Nat - Glad you called. I hope they call back! Praying for you!!!!!!

I am waiting for a call back from my CW. She left me a message that there are a few situations she wanted to pass by me!!!!!!!!! HOPING that one is the ONE!

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Old 11-28-2006, 09:09 PM
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Ok Nat...we've already discussed this...this is SUCH a good possibility!! I can't wait to see how this unfolds!!!



on our end..I received our homestudy in the mail today


So, all I had to do was sign the two forms, and send them back......




They only sent ONE freakin form


seriously...incompetent.....SERIOUSLY.




anyhoo....I called and they said I just had to sign the one and send it back...they'd send me the other if they needed it...




Sooo...one step closer. Unfortunately, its still the FIRST freakin step!!

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Wow, guys - so much good news here!!!! (bad english, but good news!!!)

Leigh - yay, your homestudy is done!!!! That is awesome - and in record time too (haha)

Lovebug - did your SW call back? Anything sound promising?

Nat - very brave! Hope they call back soon! Good luck with the meeting today - I'm sure it will be fine...

So, we are busy making plans and I am working so hard at inducing lactation - and the good news is that I am up to about an ounce every time I pump (which is ALL the time!!!). I just read that i have to get up in the middle of the night to pump - how AWFUL is that! I'm trying to hold hard to the fact that it will all be worth it when our little one is here - but boy, it's tough right now when I am still working etc and have to fit this all in!!!

Anyone else have anything new?
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WTG Natalie on making that first call!! Hope they call back soon. Good luck on your meeting today.

Need to actually get some work done, so I'll check back on you all soon (ohhhhh scary I'm stalking the boards now too, ut oh! lol)
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Old 11-29-2006, 06:26 AM
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Thanks Karyn - No she didn't call me back yesterday, but I am going to try today. I'll keep you posted! Thinking any names yet????

It is dreery and gloomy here today. DS and I have a few errands to run and then we are in for the day. I'll be back!

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Here we go again

Well, we got another contact through Parent Profiles.
She's two months along and thinking about adoption. I had no clue what to say. Especially since this is the seventh contact we've had in two and a half months and the first six were either scammers or went nowhere fast. So I did the usual: when are you due, what made you consider adoption, etc. I'm just afraid that even if she is for real, seven months is a long, LONG time away.
I'll hang in there but I'm not holding my breath.
Natalie: Good luck! And email your fellow Texans back and tell them that if they want to email you, next time DON'T use a contact form. We had that happen once too right after we activated.
Why do they think that's OK?
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Old 11-29-2006, 07:43 AM
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NIkki - good luck, I'll hold my breath for some good news for you!! It does get tiring but at the same time at least there is SOME action right? I'm so confused because dh and I haven't even been contacted by a scammer
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Old 11-29-2006, 08:41 AM
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Natalie: LMAO!!!
You can have one of ours! We've got plenty.
Really though, I've never seen PP so packed, and I've been watching/active for almost a year. You'll get contacts, you've got a good profile and great pics. I was told by another couple from my state that they didn't get any good contacts until after the holidays.
So maybe we're depressed because we're babyless and they're depresssed because they don't know what to do....too bad we can't all get together sooner.
Anywho, I'll update if and when there's any news.
And don't worry about the one phone call thing. They'll get it together and call you back. They're working on a totally different timetable than you are.
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Happy Nov 29th!!! Ok so in my life nothing special has ever happened on Nov 29th, but I guess we should still celebrate right??

Yeah, can you tell today I am 100% bored out of my mind?

I am going to the agency tonight for a meeting discussing "alternative" adoption options, international, private (find your own bmom), older child adoptions. My agency deals primarily with infant adoptions, but they had enough interest to have a meeting discussing other options. I figured it couldnt hurt to go, right??

I will fill you all in tomorrow!

Hope everyone is having a nice afternoon!
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