[redribbonrose]

We have our profile up on PP and we have been communicating with a potential birth mother for about two and a half weeks. Most of the emails are pretty basic, what's new, how's life, etc. About the third email I asked the tough questions. I haven't asked her to contact our agency yet but she said she would when I asked her if this worked out "would she contact our agency". I just don't know how long until you ask that of someone. It's like dating when you were looking for the right person and not just tring to jump in the sack. KWIM?

I wish she woud ask more questions of us but she hasn't. I haven't asked her to call us yet either. I'm confused on how to handle the whole process. For now, I'm just enjoying the email conversations so I guess it's okay as it stands but what if she is looking for more from us? It is so confusing!

How do you take the next step.

[Hopp]

I'd set up a phone conversation with her. Don't be afraid. She is I'm sure and you need to be willing to take the first step. Also, this could string out (the way it's currently going) for a while before you realize if its a good match or not. I'd e-mail her and say, "I'd like to talk in person. Let's each make a list of questions we want answered and talk on the phone." Make the arrangements, make your list, and jump in there. Who knows...could be a great thing.

[mommieof2cuties]

I agree with what Dianna said! It was great advice

God Bless,
Summer

[redribbonrose]

I'll see how the next email goes and then throw that in. I'm not afraid of talking to her, in fact I would like to. I'm afraid of being pushy. This is the most important decision this young lady has ever and will ever make. I want to respect her time line and comfort level. In our previous match I was surprised at how easy the phone convesations went, it was a good experience for a failed match!

I'll let you know how things progress!
Thanks for the advice.