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Old 12-06-2005, 01:01 PM
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Adopting a relatives child from foster care

Is there anybody else out here who feels as I do?

I am adopting my bio sons gf child. (not my sons child) Bmom and my son are allowed no contact with child (ccas rules) until the adoption is final. Nobody but somebody in my situation could understand what this means to my family. Sometimes our in-family issues regarding adoption just aren't met on the boards. I have had some GREAT support and love on these boards..but like with every other situation, there are times that we just can't be totally understood. Ya know the old saying...til ya walk a mile in my shoes?

Dont get me wrong, as I have said, I have had GREAT support and love on the forum. Ive made some wonderful friends who try their absolute best to give encouragement and kindness.....

My bson and his gf whom is also the bmom to my ason are driving this family strange. Everyday is more drama. They both begged me to take custody and then to adopt this child....until TPR happened... and then I stole the lil guy.

To make matters worse, they are pg and this baby will be apprehended. They have already stated that I will get nowhere near this child. As far as I know if they do not give permission for their child to come to me, this means my grandchild will go to foster until TPR is done and then adopted out. That HURTS!!!

Anyway...guess Im just wondering if we are the "only" family going through such chaos and drama?
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