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Old 12-06-2005, 07:46 AM
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Well, we were just infomed this morning that R had her baby two days ago. The agency just found out this morning. R is going to parent the baby girl. I am ok, DH is taking it a bit harder than me. Our agency is actively searching for us again.
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Old 12-06-2005, 07:51 AM
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So sorry to hear your news. My thoughts are with you.
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Old 12-06-2005, 07:52 AM
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Oh, Maureen! I am so sorry! I can imagine what you must be going through.

Hang in there. I will pray for you and DH that he will find the strength and the grace to get through this, and that you will continue to have yours.

I'm really sorry, I just don't know what to say. I'm so sad. I was so hoping for you. It will happen. Hang in.
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Old 12-06-2005, 08:08 AM
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Maureen - i am so sorry to hear about this failed match! You and dh will be in my thoughts and I pray that your agency finds your forever baby quickly.

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Old 12-06-2005, 08:14 AM
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Maureen,

I am so sorry. I know you were hedging about whether to go buy stuff.

Just know that we're all here for you and MANY of us (myself included) have been thru this and can help in any way we can. Vent away, grieve, eat chocolate, do whatever makes you happy.

We're all thinking and praying for you.
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Old 12-06-2005, 08:16 AM
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You, your family, this little baby and R will be in my thoughts and prayers.


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Old 12-06-2005, 08:19 AM
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Maureen, I am so sorry. Hang in there; I think it is great that you are both willing to jump right back in. Peaceful and short wait.
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Maureen, I am so sorry for you and your family. You will be in my thoughts.

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Maureen,

I am so sorry! Please let me know if there is anything I can do! If you want to vent, cry... I am here!
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Old 12-06-2005, 08:30 AM
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I'm soooo sorry to hear this! I hope that you find the right match very soon.
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So sorry to hear this. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hang in there, your baby is out there.
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So sorry to hear the news. I was really hoping this was it for you. Take care. I hope you find your child soon.
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Maureen,

I too was following your story with great hope and am sorry that you are having to go through this disappointment. You have a great attitude. Wishes for your baby to find you soon
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Maureen, I am so sorry! I was so hoping you'd be bringing a Christmas angel home. There's nothing I can say that will make it feel better right now, but know that we are all here thinking of you and your family. I'm glad you're jumping right back in, that's what we did too.
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