[pa-mom2twins]

I wanted to share that our story will be featured on the front page of "The Reporter" Newspaper here in Pennsylvania tomorrow, Tuesday, March 9th. It can be accessed online at http://TheReporterOnline.com on Tuesday (and maybe through a search after that...I'm not sure how that works). I don't know what the title of the story will be, but it should be easy to find on the site.

We decided to share our story because so many in our community are excited and have so many questions...most really want to help. We will be traveling on our first trip in a few weeks and we're overwhelmed, but so happy to unite all of our children.

Warmest Regards, Lisa (Mom to two, soon to be six)

[M.Dumas]

THREE sets of twins!
WOW!
Congrats!
You have just hit the jackpot!
They are so beautiful.
Good luck and God bless you and your family.
WOW!
THREE sets of twins? (I can't get over it!)

~Marcia~

[amom4life]

I will be praying that you are all together soon!
Judy

[lambeausam]

May God bless ALL of you!

[riley6]

Is there anyway to cut and paste the article here? I'd love to read it, but it won't let me access it.

Congratulations to you!

[NCMom]

Hoping for a reunion

BETH COHEN , Staff Writer 03/09/2004


FRANCONIA – Twins Sophia and Joseph Salem have never met their four older brothers and sisters.


Those siblings comprise two other sets of twins – sisters Nadia and Vera‚ who are 11‚ and brothers Sergey and Nikolai‚ who are 10.

But later this spring‚ the three sets of twins will reunite in the Pskov region of Russia. And with Russian court approval‚ Sophia and Joseph’s adoptive parents‚ Lisa and Hythem Salem of Cobble Court‚ will adopt the four siblings and bring them to live in their Franconia home.

“I will share my toys with them‚” said Sophia‚ 6‚ who’s older than Joseph by a minute. “I want to hug and kiss them.”

Sophia and Joseph‚ who attend kindergarten at Franconia Elementary School‚ were adopted by Lisa and Hythem on Jan. 18‚ 1999.

“The fact is they are the brother and sister of these children and you can’t live with the time and moment when Joseph and Sophia say‚ ‘What did you do to save my brothers and sisters?’” said Hythem‚ 43‚ a senior network engineer for Motorola in Horsham.

Hythem said he and Lisa decided it would be better for Sophia and Joseph to be reunited with their siblings.

“To see a family reunited‚ and to raise them under the same roof – it’s going to be exciting‚” he said. “Even with the challenges that lie ahead‚ that will be...water under the bridge.”

Hythem and Lisa both said they think Nadia‚ Vera‚ Sergey and Nikolai would probably not have a happy future if they remained in Russia.

The girls live in an orphanage 170 miles from their brothers.

Few people are willing to adopt children older than age 5‚ and at age 16 in Russia‚ orphan children are emancipated and left to fend for themselves‚ often without skills‚ they said.

“That’s really a sorry future and we just can’t live with that‚” Hythem said.

Adopting an entire family’s children is rare‚ according to Kelli Myers-Gottmoller‚ a family services supervisor in adoption for the Lutheran Children & Family Services in Roslyn.

“When children come into the system in Russia‚ the children generally are not kept together‚” she said.

The LSFS is handling the home study for the Salem family‚ to ensure they are emotionally‚ financially and physically prepared to take on four more adopted children.

“It’s a heartbreaking thing it happened this way‚ but I am happy we can reunite brothers and sisters from the same birth parents‚” Hythem said. “I am sad for the birth parents‚ but I am happy for us to be able to raise all of the children under one roof.”

Although rare‚ the Salem family will adopt all of the children in part because Lisa has maintained contact for six years with Russian officials to check on the well-being of Nadia‚ Vera‚ Sergey and Nikolai.

She said she’s thought about a possible reunion since adopting Sophia and Joseph‚ but it was not possible until Vera‚ Nadia‚ Sergey and Nikolai became orphans 18 months ago. Their birth parents‚ whom Lisa declined to identify by name‚ had given up the children due to severe poverty.

Sophia and Joseph were put up for adoption at birth‚ spending the first six months of their life in a Russian hospital. Then they were placed in an orphanage for another five months before they were adopted by the Salems.

“My husband and I could have had children on our own‚ but we thought about it and wondered why we should have children on our own when there are so many children out there without parents that we could adopt‚” said Lisa‚ 39‚ who works from home and writes books.

The Salems learned on Dec. 27 that they could adopt Nadia‚ Vera‚ Sergey and Nikolai.

“Sometimes you have to listen to your heart and do what you believe‚” Lisa said.

In mid-April‚ Lisa and Hythem will take Sophia and Joseph to Russia to meet their siblings.

Then in June‚ Lisa and Hythem will return to Russia to bring the four children home. Sophia and Joseph will stay at home with a family friend.

Lisa and Hythem said they know there will be many challenges ahead‚ but they aren’t worried.

“Life’s hardest journeys give you the most joy‚” Lisa said.

Right now the Salems are focusing on the reunion.

When Nikolai and Sergey arrive in the United States‚ Joseph plans to teach them how to play baseball and football.

Sophia said she plans to teach her Russian-speaking sisters the English language.

Lisa said she realizes the children will have more complex needs that also must be addressed.

Those needs include buying new clothing‚ furniture‚ more food‚ toys‚ books and bicycles. They also will have to provide medical care and build an addition onto their three-bedroom home.

“I know we could convert our living room into a bedroom‚ but then we still need another bedroom‚” Lisa said.

They are seeking help from the community‚ whether it’s money‚ clothing‚ furniture or a builder willing to construct an addition onto the Salem home for free or at a reduced cost.

Money is tight and the Salems already have cashed in their retirement account‚ she said.

“I feel bad because I’ve never had to ask for anything‚” Lisa said. “But we have to put our pride aside.”

She estimates it will cost at least $51‚000 to adopt the children‚ provide for their needs and construct the addition to their home.

The Salems also need to buy a new vehicle that will accommodate at least eight people. Their existing Honda Odyssey can only seat seven.

The Salems have set up a bank account at the American Heritage Credit Union in Horsham‚ where people can make monetary donations.

They also are accepting other types of donations – clothing‚ furniture and other non-monetary items – at their Franconia home. They ask that people call them at (215) 721-2152 before dropping off donations.

[PinkRibbon]

Hi Neighbor! I live not far from you and I'm so excited for your family to be complete! Keep us posted on what it's like raising 6 kids!

[PinkRibbon]

I saw you on the news tonight!!!! Your children are adorable. You have such a wonderful family. I'm so happy for you.

[pa-mom2twins]

Yes, we were on the local Philadelphia news on both channel 6 and channel 10. They both did awesome pieces and thank you all for your support and your compliments on my children. Right now, it's a media circus and it seems that the national programs also want to get involved, but I think we want to wait until the children are home for that and can assess their needs first.

We even have reporters that want to go to Russia with us, but I've said that it is out of the question. Anyway thank you again for all of your support and for posting the article. I appreciate your thoughts and prayers.

Warmly, Lisa - Mom to two and soon to be six

[MyGrlnme]

Wow, saw the whole story on the news !!! Way to go! Great coverage from the Philly stations ! Your in my thoughts and prayers! Keep us posted!