[donna v]

does anyone have any suggestions for posting info on the net about adopting. i know we may get some quacks, etc., but we just feel so limited in what we are doing. our adoption attorney said she has alot of bmoms finding parents on the net, then she is just doing thier paperwork. are there places you place this info or just do it on your own?
thanks
donna

[JuliannaTeresa]

I this Profiling Adoption is more private than you actually think!
There are a lot of Adoption sites that try and keep it private and intimate and relatively 'Quack Free.' It is very highly successful!

There are sites where you post your Adoptive Profile A.K.A. why and what sex you want to Parent.

I am not sure though if you and your husband have thought about what your feelings are towards how you want the relationship with the Birth Parent to be?

Since they are chosing your Profile they may have expectations of either visitation contact, or correspondence rather than no visitation or correspondence contact if you go through your Attorney!

[donna v]

hi!

i have thought about that - i think we would want to be relatively closed simply because we had a bad expeirence back in january with a private adoption. promising her to more than one couple. i know that is pretty isolated, but it was still painful. thanks for replying.
donna

[JuliannaTeresa]

I am very sorry for your Failed Adoption. My Daughter had that happen.

I now have a Joint Custody Adoption arrangement with her Biological Uncle.

It is extremely hard because I feel that if I control the relationship. Her Uncle will take her back, or have the Adoption nullified.

[donna v]

i know what you mean. you want what is best for the child, but you have to be so careful when others are involved. someones toes are always stepped on. you sound like a great women. good luck to you.
donna