[fabfosterfam]

We live in California, and both my husband and I are traveling out of town for 2 days on business. We have a 9 year old FC who has been with us 4 months now and is a fantastic kid, with no serious behavioral issues.

She wants to spend the night or two at her friend's house, (who has slept over here before). She has been invited to stay at her friend's home while we're gone and we know the parents well.

I believe that this would not be acceptable in California, and that if we leave town, the only person she can legally stay with is with another certified foster parent/family. Is this correct? Again, this pertains specifically to California, as I know other areas have their own rules.

Any specific information that would help is appreciated. Thanks!

[elizabeth30]

You can ask your cw if she can stay at a friends. In my area everyone has to be fingerprinted...

[mckmom10]

I agree with Elizabeth 30 check with your caseworker! In our state we can get permission to take the kids with us! I have traveled 2xs out of state with my placements. Mom was supportive of the kids going which helped out great! If you have a good relationship with mom and it won't interfere with visits (or an agreement can be worked out between you and Mom) that helps out tons!
Good luck and keep us posted on what you are able to do!

[faliviking]

We're in CA and when our girls' cousins, who live far away, came into town (we are lucky if we get to see them once a year), their aunt was going to have all the kids over for a sleep-over. The CW for our 6-year old said that it was fine for her to stay there too. I guess they didn't want her to feel left out in a situation like that. I was surprised that she was OK with that though, because like you, I thought that it wasn't allowed. I'd ask the worker and get it in writing. Good luck!

[hisdaisy]

In our area, they would ask the family to undergo a simple background check. That is all that is required to be a respite family.