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Old 09-01-2009, 04:51 PM
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TPR for Libby today!

We are THRILLED! TPR for her three older sibs that have been in another home too. Fmom was is not an adoptive resource. The cases have been separate from the beginning so we've never had sib visits. After learning a bit more, we're considering adopting the older sibs too. That would give us seven kids though.

Are we completely nuts?
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Old 09-01-2009, 05:25 PM
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Congrats!

And no, I don't think you are nuts for considering taking Libby's siblings...I think you are amazing!
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Congrats! Exciting about the possibility of getting the sibs.
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Old 09-01-2009, 05:59 PM
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yes, completely nuts.

That is a great thing!
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Old 09-01-2009, 06:41 PM
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Congrats. Take the sibs and love life! We took our first 3's cousins and life couldn't be better. We went from 2 to 8 in a span of 6 months
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Definetly nuts but I would do it...well after finding out about them to see if they all fit with our current family. Congrats on the TPR that is great news.
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Old 09-01-2009, 06:56 PM
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Definetly nuts but I would do it...well after finding out about them to see if they all fit with our current family. Congrats on the TPR that is great news.

Yes indeed!
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Congratulations! So happy for you and your expanding family.

I am all for 7 children and would do it in a heartbeat if I could find the room.
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Old 09-02-2009, 05:59 AM
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That would give us seven kids though.

Are we completely nuts?

No. I just realized last night that I would be okay with 8. They mentioned in our PRIDE class how they have had to split up or find a home several hours away a sib set of 5 and a set of 8 recently because they couldn't find a home in our area that would take them. I leaned over to DH and said, "We have the room for that many kids." You should have seen his eyes.
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Curious, how on earth do youkeep getting placements that move to adoption? i'm getting frustrated with ours NOT going that way.
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Old 09-02-2009, 01:05 PM
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Congratulations!!!! 7 is a lucky number right. I say go for it!!! Best wishes...
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Old 09-02-2009, 01:22 PM
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Congratulations!!!! I say go for it!!
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