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Do you nest when you think you are getting a placment?
So, Alley Baby's little sister is 14 days old and still in the hospital. We are being considered as a placement. She was 5 weeks early and cocaine exposed. Do you think it is ok that I prepare for her to come even if it is not 100%? I am not going to lie to you, I have bought clothes! What do you think??
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My children consist of: Bio daughters -Heather 26yr, Hollie 23 yr, Heidi 21 yr Foster/adopted daughter- Brittney 22yr. Private adopted son -Tyler 3yr. Foster/adopted Daugher 8 yrs., Zoey ![]() Foster/adopted Son 7 yrs. Romeo : rolleyes: Current placements:, Foster daughter "Baby K" 2 month old Foster daughter "Alley baby" 2 yr. old Foster son "Blua Blua" 2.5 yr ![]() And we have helped: Previous placements = 3 Previous respite = 2 |
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I bought clothes too!
I had a strong probabilty of a placement, and bought clothes and school supplies! haha, definitely nesting. Good thing for me, she visited this weekend and is hopefully moving in before the end of the month.
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Buy away just keep the tags on and the receipts handy.
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Mom to 8 blessings; BD K 19 BS D 16 AS J 10 AD C 9 AS H 6 AS T 3 FS L 2 (TPR'd waiting to adopt) FD G medically fragile preemie foster/adopt And in the end it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln |
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I hope it works out for you guys!!
Nest away! -- but I second keeping the receipts. |
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I've "nested" 2 times now, but neither placement came through. The 1st time I bought clothes and had to return them (a "phanton" baby my child's biomom said she had, but that a whole other story!). The 2nd time, I just got some food, which did not go to waste.
If the baby does come to you she will need clothes, and you will be pretty busy, so it makes sense that you are preparing now! Its exciting to nest Good luck. |
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Oh, I do this all the time..if I see an outfit at goodwill that is just too cute to pass up I buy it. I have so many baby and toddler clothes now for a some day placement. I figure it is cheaper than running out to walmart or target to buy a new one if they ever send us a baby that has nothing. Plus if they send us a baby that has nothing they will need something to wear until I can get out and get new stuff. LOL see I can rationalize this very well. Dh used to say why? After our first placement showed up (3 kids) with just the clothes on their backs he is all for it now.
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Biomom to E-19 D-14 Licensed July 2 2008 First placement July 2 2008 E-5 N-3 J-2 ![]() TPR...round 2 |
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I am going through the nesting thing too. I am back on the placement list next week. I am doing an overhaul on the apartment by throwing out things and repositioning furniture. My bedroom has become storage central which is going to be the largest cleaning project.
I too recently purchased school supplies. I have tons of baby and toddler clothing for a boy. I have more than a few pieces for an infant and toddler girl. I was in Sears and saw some uniform shirts for school..I picked up a few shirts and later decided against it. I could not see them allowing me to put a school aged child in the same bedroom with Muscles.
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08/20/2008: completed interest form online 09/06/2008: attended informational meeting 09/09/2008: attended first PRIDE class 10/04/2008: completed PRIDE classes 10/17/2008: homestudy completed 11/07/2008: fingerprints done; now the real wait begins!!! 12/31/2008: officially licensed 01/04/2009: my home officially opens for placements ![]() 01/28/2009: Muscle man (4 mos) is placed-RU'd w/ parents 12/18/2009 (tenative) 05/19/2009: Sumo Wrestler (5 mos) is placed 06/09/2009: Sumo RU'd with mom 07/21/2009: Respite for Ultimate Diva until 7/31/09 10/18/2009: infant super model is placed (three wks old)-place w/ siblings 11/16/2009 |
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I found out today we are on standby. The baby might be getting out tomorrow. We found out the baby also had heroine in her system and went thru w/drawals this weekend. That is so sad! I am so ready for this challenge to help this baby thrive and do the best for her!
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My children consist of: Bio daughters -Heather 26yr, Hollie 23 yr, Heidi 21 yr Foster/adopted daughter- Brittney 22yr. Private adopted son -Tyler 3yr. Foster/adopted Daugher 8 yrs., Zoey ![]() Foster/adopted Son 7 yrs. Romeo : rolleyes: Current placements:, Foster daughter "Baby K" 2 month old Foster daughter "Alley baby" 2 yr. old Foster son "Blua Blua" 2.5 yr ![]() And we have helped: Previous placements = 3 Previous respite = 2 |
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