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Old 05-20-2009, 09:59 AM
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Who said there were no infants available...

Well...I now have two in my home. Muscles, who in now 8 mos old and introducing... the Sumo wrestler, 5 mos old. This is a huuuuge baby. I swear the parents stuck a bottle in his mouth every time he cried. He is sooooo aggressive when it comes to him being hungry.
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01/28/2009: Muscle man (4 mos) is placed-RU'd w/ parents 12/18/2009 (tenative)
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Old 05-20-2009, 10:07 AM
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WOW!!!! Looks like yor hands will be full.
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Old 05-20-2009, 10:13 AM
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Muscles and Sumo wrestler....you've got some big, strong boys on your hands. Enjoy them!
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Congrats on your new boy.
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Old 05-20-2009, 11:45 AM
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Congrats! I heard that infants weren't available much in my area either, but that's all I had been getting calls for. Enjoy both of your babies.
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Congratulations. You will be busy!!
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Old 05-20-2009, 01:22 PM
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Congrats! I heard that infants weren't available much in my area either, but that's all I had been getting calls for. Enjoy both of your babies.
Really? Infants ? Are you with an agency or private,because I am also told "don't hold your breathe for infants"......
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Old 05-20-2009, 01:39 PM
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privatde here. we have had 3 infants in the last 8 months. we know people are being told this is not the way toadopt...but our small agency has about that are adoptable or headed that way, if not more.
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Old 05-20-2009, 01:59 PM
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Congratulations!! you are nuts!! LOL
Enjoy them!!!
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yeah that is great
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Old 05-20-2009, 02:05 PM
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congrats!!!
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I am with a private agency. Yesterday, when the cw called, she said they had 7 babies to place.

"They" tell everyone that there are no infants...This is their way of weeding people out.
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10/04/2008: completed PRIDE classes
10/17/2008: homestudy completed
11/07/2008: fingerprints done; now the real wait begins!!!
12/31/2008: officially licensed
01/04/2009: my home officially opens for placements

01/28/2009: Muscle man (4 mos) is placed-RU'd w/ parents 12/18/2009 (tenative)
05/19/2009: Sumo Wrestler (5 mos) is placed
06/09/2009: Sumo RU'd with mom
07/21/2009: Respite for Ultimate Diva until 7/31/09
10/18/2009: infant super model is placed (three wks old)-place w/ siblings 11/16/2009
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I am with a private agency. Yesterday, when the cw called, she said they had 7 babies to place.

"They" tell everyone that there are no infants...This is their way of weeding people out.
7 babies, around here I can't even get a call!!! Best of luck to all of you.I know my day is coming really,really soon!!!
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Congrats! How are you managing with 2 babies? How is Muscles adjusting to having another little one around?
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Muscles is doing well so far. Sumo finds him comical.

It is only the first day, but I am okay. A little tired. Once I got him to bed at midnight, he did not wake back up until I woke him this morning. The challenge is getting in and out of the car and house. I have a small car so a double stroller is not in the cards at this time.

Like I said earlier, he is a huge baby and they overfed him...His skin is really tight and stretched and extremely red. So far I can see he is behind developmentally, because he just lays there. Also, I can tell they kept him laying down because his head, back and butt are REALLY flat. There is not a "crease" for his spine. He can not turn his head because he is so overweight. It looks like his head is fused to his shoulders. We have a doctor's appointment next week and I will have a list for her..
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08/20/2008: completed interest form online
09/06/2008: attended informational meeting
09/09/2008: attended first PRIDE class
10/04/2008: completed PRIDE classes
10/17/2008: homestudy completed
11/07/2008: fingerprints done; now the real wait begins!!!
12/31/2008: officially licensed
01/04/2009: my home officially opens for placements

01/28/2009: Muscle man (4 mos) is placed-RU'd w/ parents 12/18/2009 (tenative)
05/19/2009: Sumo Wrestler (5 mos) is placed
06/09/2009: Sumo RU'd with mom
07/21/2009: Respite for Ultimate Diva until 7/31/09
10/18/2009: infant super model is placed (three wks old)-place w/ siblings 11/16/2009
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