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Old 01-12-2009, 06:03 PM
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A good message

Got this in an email; it reminded me of children who have been through foster care....


A well-known speaker
started off his seminar by holding up a $20.00
bill. In the room of 200, he asked,
'Who would like this $20 bill?'

Hands started going up.


He said, 'I am going to give this
$20 to one of you but first, let me
do this.
He proceeded to crumple up the $20 dollar bill.
He then asked, 'Who still wants it?'

Still the hands were up in the air..

Well, he replied, 'What if I do this?'

And he dropped it on the ground

and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.

He picked it up, now crumpled and dirty.


'Now, who still wants it?'


Still the hands went into the air.


My friends, we have all learned a
very valuable lesson...

No matter what
I did to the money, you still wanted it
because it did not decrease in value.


It was still worth $20..


Many times in our lives,


we are dropped, crumpled, and ground
into the dirt

by the decisions we
make and

the circumstances that come
our way.

We feel as though we are
worthless.

But no matter what has
happened or

what will happen, you
will never lose your value.

Dirty or
clean, crumpled or finely creased,

you are still
priceless to those who DO LOVE you.

The worth of our
lives comes not in what we do or who we know,


but by WHO WE ARE and
WHOSE WE ARE.


You are
special
-
Don't EVER forget it.'

If you do not pass
this on, you may never know the

lives it touches, the
hurting hearts it speaks to,

or the hope that it
can bring.

Count your blessings,
not your problems..


'And remember:
amateurs built the ark ..

professionals
built the Titanic.

I f God brings you to
it - He will bring you through it.
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Old 01-12-2009, 06:53 PM
1withopenarms 1withopenarms is offline
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Thanks so much for sharing that! We have a sexual abuse training starting up this week and I plain on sharing this with the class. As foster parents we see more than any parent should ever have too and well deal will more than most parents would ever want to. These message needs to be shared with all of those whom, on a daily basis, question our cause. Thanks again.
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5/20/08-Start MAPPS Training
7/22/08-Finish MAPPS
11/20/08-Offical NYS foster Parents
12/19/08-First offical respite placement
1/1/09-second resipte placement (both were teens )
1/5/09- start transfer from private to DSS agency(we want our little ones)
1/26/09-Transfer complete, 1st placement "peanut"
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Old 01-12-2009, 08:45 PM
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WOW.....Powerful! Thanks for sharring.
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7-21-00 Married Rick
Bio Mom to 4... all older and on there own
Step Mom to 2... older and on there own
1-31-04 Rontae placed in our arms through domestic adoption
4-18-06 first foster placement N & J
4-18-07 TPR done for N & J
4-28-07 took gaurdianship of our grandson B
7-09-07 filed to adopt N & J
waiting for court date to adopt N & J

6-04-08 Grandson B went back to live with his mother
8-19-08 Signed the Sub. Agreement Paperwork
2-19-09 Got the call...We have a court date set to adopt!!
3-06-09 New foster placement (Skippy)
3-20-09 Adoption of N and J Finalized!!
8-28-09 Skippy moved to new foster home to be with his sibs!
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