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Old 09-26-2008, 09:59 AM
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Case review today

And I am so nervous, and I can't even attend it due to job issues.

Why am I so nervous? Its the fifth review....every six months. Never any progress in the past four reviews...and goal was changed 8 months ago. I have asked the cw to do a conference call with me and the girls' Behav. therapist is going to be in attendance.

Sigh....BREATHE. Good thoughts please.....

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Old 09-26-2008, 10:35 AM
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I get like that for every court hearing, any reviews, anything. You never know what can and will be said. The Judge can determine on a whim to send them back (it has happened), so yeah I get nervous too.

Today we had a conference for Baby Don King, all it was for the mother to accept or ask for a trial for her case. It was at 9a and I still haven't heard anything. I want to know what's going on but I don't want to seem like a pest.

Hang in there.
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Mr. Investigator - 8/07-5/08 - Moved to therapeutic (Miss him greatly)
Mr. Home Run Hitter - 5/08 - Moved to relative
Ms. Puff-Balls - 5/08 - Moved to relative
Ms. Pumkin - 6/08 - Back to Dad
Mr. El Gato - placed 6/08-7/08 - To a not so good choice non-relative
Ms. Beautiful Angel - 8/08 - Home, Came back into care 10/08, Went to another foster home.
Mr. Baby Stewie - 07/08 - 8/08 - Went back Home
Mr. Peabody - 10/08 - 12/08 - Disrupted - Went back to previous FP for adoption
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I have one this wed. mom hasn't even had a visit because of using since middle of aug but I'm very nervous. I can't help it. I know the kids aren't going anyplace but still that little voice in my head wont shut up.
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Old 09-26-2008, 07:58 PM
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How did it go Kristin? I'm so tired of hearing no progress is being made in this case - it is really the most drawn-out, mis-handled situation I have ever heard of. I'm really hoping you hear something productive for a change!
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how did it go??

Hope everything went well for the child/children involved. I don't get much nervous for the case plan meeting, but COURT, now that is when the drama all unfolds.....good wishes and best thoughts to ya!
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Old 09-29-2008, 08:03 AM
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I have heard from the cw and the girls' Behavioral therapist that the review went real well. Parents were 1/2 hour late and then argued through the entire review. It was determined that these last six months have had unsatisfactory progress....making it a total of 2 1/2 years of no work on goals.

Bios were upset that i wasnt' there....wonder why that is? what do they want with me?

We supposedly we are heading to TPR on the 15th. And it is a strong case i have been told. Cw has just been asked to complete a Best Interests review. That must mean something good huh?

Thanks everyone for asking and caring.

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Old 09-29-2008, 08:24 AM
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So glad to hear you have reassuring news and some sight of progress.
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Old 09-29-2008, 08:36 AM
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Finally you are closer to a TPR hearing. I hope it all goes well!
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Old 09-29-2008, 10:03 AM
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Wow. I will be thinking of you and crossing my fingers on October 15. I hope this goes fast, and you and the girls get some peace and relief. I'm praying for you!
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Wishing good news for you today!!!! Please let us know!!!
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