[Elle83]

Looking for advice from those who have worked with photo listings before. My SW told me the best plan was for me to give her all the details and she would make contact w/ workers - but 2 months into the process, I have asked her about 15 kids in state and 5 out of state and have heard back about only 2 kids (both with extreme behavior issues). She also referred 3 kids that were not photo listed - we submitted out home study for all 3, never heard back on 2 and was interviewed for 1 (the child was placed with a family that racially matches him better).

So the question - the photo listings include contact info for the worker...has anyone had a good experience with calling/emailing the workers directly ... is this a good idea?

Thanks

[Withay]

Does the state that you are looking at accept potential adoptive parent contact with the caseworkers, or does it prefer cw to cw contact? That can make a difference.

If the state doesn't mind having you contact the cw, then I would say to go for it. If they request cw to cw contact only then you will have to request your cw to contact them.

Good luck.

[AngelArrow]

It depends on the state and the cw. You can contact the cw of the child and give info on who your agency is and give them info on your cw or fsp so the cw of the child can then get more info on you from your cw if interested, but keep in mind it depends on each cw how he/she wants to handle everything. We overall had good experience and had quick replies as well as direct contact. Good luck

[wtacey01]

My worker actually suggested that we both contact the worker. Some prefer to contact her 1st, some the prospective parent. I don't see any harm in it. You might want to CC your worker, or send her an e-mail if you call.

Stacey