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I work in a medical office and am covered by patient confidentiality. A few weeks ago I had to call DHHS to report a neglect/abuse issue. A mother drove 45miles to get to her appointment while coming down off of her "meds" ( opiates ). She couldn't walk and told me she couldn't drive straight, except for her kid holding the steering wheel (he's 9). She was so out of it that she doesn't remember telling me this, and blames the report on someone else.Today - she wants information on how to become a foster parent. I'm not sure what to do....I can call my worker (whom so far rocks) and make sure that they double check incoming applications against DHHS reports? I can't give her the clients names due to confidentiality. Oh this is so frustrating. I just don't want them to slip threw the cracks and get approved. I'm thinking about mentioning the "drug testing" we had to do (they wouldn't pass if the state required it). They need the money and have the ability to fool those around them. It is not a safe place for a fosterchild/let alone their own.
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Soon to be Adoptive Parent Jan 08 - applied to be an adoptive parent Feb 08 - attended Orientation May 08 - finished Foster/Adoptive classes late May 08 - received OK from fingerprints/back ground checks June 08 - approved to adopt July - 08 waiting for the Looking to adopt up to 2 boys age 0 - 10 |
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The only thing i can think of is this:
when i became a foster parent, I had to get a form filled out by my doctor. My doctor had to rate my health and ability to be a foster parent. I guess if she brings the form back to you for that portion of the application process you can check "not fit". Anything else might be breaking confidentiality.
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Reese Officially Licensed: 06/05/2007 Current Placements: FS: T:9 FS: V:4 Previous Placements: FD H: 17 FD K: 14 Orientation until License took 3 months and 18 days Could have been quicker had I been more diligent with my homework and my references a bit quicker! |
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Unfortunately I am not at her PCP's office but I did forget about the health screening. Hopefully her PCP won't be bullied by her.
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Soon to be Adoptive Parent Jan 08 - applied to be an adoptive parent Feb 08 - attended Orientation May 08 - finished Foster/Adoptive classes late May 08 - received OK from fingerprints/back ground checks June 08 - approved to adopt July - 08 waiting for the Looking to adopt up to 2 boys age 0 - 10 |
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If she doesn't like the way one physician fills out a form she might always go to another physician.
Do you know what ever became of the report your called in on her? If you mention not only the drug testing but also Child Abuse Registry check she might also not be inclined to pursue.
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With the same amazing man for 13yrs Mom to a wild and crazy bunch: AD - A1 - 7 yrs (adopted Oct 2005) AD - A2 - 3yrs (adopted Dec 2006) BS - T - newborn (born 7-29-08) FD - A3 - 2yrs old (placed Nov 2006) FS - C - 16yrs (placed July 2007)Total of 102 foster children and 3 foreign exchange students at last count.
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I know when we had our first class the instructor said it always amazed her how many didn't show up the next time after they had been told about the background checks they would do. Maybe she will realize this isn't going to be a just walk in and get handed a kid and a check and will change her mind thing like I'm guessing she thinks it will be.
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Call CPS. Her current child, the nine year old, is in danger, which mandates a call to CPS. Talk to the doctor if you have any doubts.
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