[Kristin7]

Got call from cw telling me that biom called her complaining about the 8year old being droppy on her last visit. Told cw that child refused to do anything with her and that she was tired. child told biom that her new meds were making her tired. biom doesn't want her on meds.

cw wanted to know if there was any changes in meds...so i told her that the doctor had increases her meds to help with the continued behaviors....especially after the incident with the biod that caused such problems.

cw wanted to know what she was on and what the dosage was. Shouldn't she know that from the doctor?

SECOND issue....cw just called and told me that biom is now wanting phone contact. I told cw NO...i'm not doing that. that at this point where contact is going to come to a close after TPR...that opening that can of worms is not in the girls' best interest. that we havne't had phone contact in over a year 1/2 and it was decided that it wasn't good for the girls so it was stopped.

Can I say NO? I have enough to deal with the behaviors from the girls and their fits. The bios aren't healthy...that is why the TPR is happening....why would cw push for more contact?

Thougths/advice?
Thanks

[mrstkg1]

Why would she push, to get your sister off her back. Stand your ground. : )

[Yash]

I agree with mrstkg1. She wants your sister to stop calling, so she'll agree to whatever.

[momagain5]

hi,
do the kids have a therapist?if you can get therapist to agree that phone contact is not in their best interest,it can be stopped.

[Kristin7]

Yes...kids have two present therapists and had another two in the past that have all said that both calls and visits were harmful. Visits were not stopped....but calls were.