Family Forums
Parenting Forums
Pregnancy Forums
Adoption Forums
Fertility Forums






Members List Photos Events Local Adoption Support Search Arcade Reviews Membership Upgrade
Welcome to the Forums. Register
If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ. You may have to register before you can post or search: click here to proceed. To start viewing messages, select a forum below that you would like to view or click View All of Todays Posts.
Forum Categories
User Name
Password

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
  #1  
Old 12-18-2007, 11:02 AM
HappyMommy106 HappyMommy106 is offline
Member
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 127
Total Points: 7,088.44
Donate
Can't believe this photo listing!

I was reviewing the Ohio photo listings (which are mainly kids with adoptions already in the works by the time their profile is posted...) and I came across this sibling set.

Read the description. I truly can't believe it, no subsidy or medical card for 3 AA siblings born cocaine positive. No medical card!!??

Anyone have insight on that state? Will they be able to place those children without those supports in place? Seems so hard to believe, in comparison to my own state.

Quote:
Jaylin, Kaylin and Zaylin
November 2004, September 2005 and January 2007

Jaylin is a loving little boy and gets along well with everyone in his household (even though he is jealous of his siblings at times). He is a gentle child and he loves to please. Jaylin is a great helper. He is a smart boy and follow instructions well. Jaylin is a good eater and sleeps well too (about 10 hours a day). He was exposed to cocaine, nicotine and caffeine while inutero.

Kaylin has a smile that will light up a room. He is all boy and loves to play rough. He is a patient child for his age and doesn’t get frustrated or mad easily. He is a good eater also. Kaylin sleeps well as long as his brother, Jaylin, is in the room (about 10 hours a day). He enjoys being around Jaylin and tries to follow his lead. He also was exposed to cocaine inutero.

Zaylin is a loving and affectionate baby. He has adorable smile that melt any heart. He is not a moody baby at all and you can generally predict when he’s hungry, sleepy or just wants some attention. Zaylin loves to be around people. Zaylin is usually awake more than he’s sleep. He has problems communicating his needs and is easily frustrated. He too was exposed to cocaine inutero.

Foster parents report all three of the boys are a joy to be around and they get along well with others. They do get jealous of each other at times but they are well behaved.

This beautiful sibling group is looking for a dedicated family with a lot of love and ample attention to give them. This family will need to have plenty of patience and energy.

Franklin County Children Services is only considering families that are able to take the boys without subsidy or Medical card. This means that the family will receive no financial assistance.
Reply With Quote
Adoption Information
Become an adoption forums premium member to enjoy these Membership Benefits:
  • Remove Advertising
  • Unlimited Arcade
  • Unlimited Attachments
  • Increased PM Storage
  • Calendar Posting
  • Larger Avatars
  • Personal Page
  • Just $19.95 / yr!

  #2  
Old 12-18-2007, 11:04 AM
HappyMommy106 HappyMommy106 is offline
Member
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 127
Total Points: 7,088.44
Donate
here is the link
Ohio Adoption Photo Listing Information
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 12-18-2007, 11:26 AM
Chancey Chancey is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Nov 2005
Posts: 494
Total Points: 6,293.85
Donate
I'd just say... good luck to them in finding a placement. They will be on their caseload for a very long time, or until they provide a healthy subsidy and medical coverage.
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 12-18-2007, 01:16 PM
hesabanana's Avatar
hesabanana hesabanana is offline
Senior Member

Join Date: Jul 2005
Posts: 1,720
Total Points: 82,689.12
Donate
How sad that these little guys won't be provided for!
__________________
Adoptive mom to my former foster son, age 4
Former foster mom to his sister, 3, who we miss terribly
Adoptive mom to my Guatemalan son, age 2
Adoptive mom to my Guatemalan daughter, 1
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 12-18-2007, 01:37 PM
ranoutofnames's Avatar
ranoutofnames ranoutofnames is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Jun 2007
Posts: 1,003
Total Points: 45,275.56
Donate
We had considered adopting an older sibling group from Ohio, but when we realized there was no Medicaid or subsidy to help we looked at our personal finances and decided we couldn't take the financial risk. We have a lotta love just not a lotta money to raise additional children.

I'm not positive but I think Ohio searches for families first that will consider adopting without any assistance and if no one steps forward interested then they offer some assistance... but I could be wrong.
__________________
With the same amazing man for 15yrs

Mom to a wild and crazy bunch:
Adopted - A1 - 9 yrs (adopted Oct 2005)
Adopted - A2 - 5yrs (adopted Dec 2006)
Biological - T - 1 yr (born 7-29-08)
:Exchange student - K - 17yrs
Former foster child (lives with me during the week) - M - 13yrs (foster child from age 6yrs to 11yrs)

Total of 104 foster children and 4 foreign exchange students at last count.
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 12-18-2007, 01:55 PM
kxl164 kxl164 is offline
K
Join Date: Jul 2006
Posts: 951
Total Points: 31,645.60
Donate
States who utelize Title IV-E subsidy contracts are OBLIGATED to first try and find a home that will take the children without any Adoption Assistance. If they do not have a foster family who is willing to adopt and already has close ties with the children then, by law, they have to try and find an adoptive home w/o the help of adoption assistance.

After a certain period of time (differs for different areas) then they can say they complied with that statute and open up the search for adoptive families who would need an Adoption Subiisdy Agreement in place.

It is not that Ohio is being ridiculous, it is that to be in compliance with the law they have to do this First, and then explore homes who would need Adoption Assistance.

I don't know what their policy is, but I would hope that listings like this do not linger and that after a short amount of time, 1 month maybe, that the listing is changed.

A state cannot afford to be out of compliance with the federal statutes, it is too expensive for them and the federal government has been really cracking down on strict adherence to their statutes as a means of enforcing the states to follow the ASFA.
__________________
K
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 12-18-2007, 02:24 PM
DoYaReallyThink's Avatar
DoYaReallyThink DoYaReallyThink is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 251
Total Points: 16,856.34
Donate
This is our state. I surely hope we are able to get the subsidy especially the medical card for whomever we adopt. So they don't have to let us receive the subsidies at all?

Fran
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 12-18-2007, 02:42 PM
HappyMommy106 HappyMommy106 is offline
Member
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 127
Total Points: 7,088.44
Donate
Quote:
Originally Posted by kxl164
States who utelize Title IV-E subsidy contracts are OBLIGATED to first try and find a home that will take the children without any Adoption Assistance. If they do not have a foster family who is willing to adopt and already has close ties with the children then, by law, they have to try and find an adoptive home w/o the help of adoption assistance.

Lots of states have Title IV-E subsidy contracts... but they still manage to place children with Medicaid!! My state is right beside Ohio, and all children with certain characteristics automatically keep their Medicaid. In fact, my state will upfront offer the subsidy and medicaid AND college tuition to any child who is:
1) AA children over age 2
2) siblings (must be adopted as same time)
3) white chidlren over aged 7
4) "special needs" (which is open to interpretation - could be medical, could be behavioral, could be emotional)

And my state is WAY poorer than Ohio. I wonder under what circumstances they would provide Medicaid - if not for three minority children born cocaine addicted?! I am not even talking about subsidies after adopting - just Medicaid for goodness sakes! Almost all kids adopted from my state (except healthy infants) get to keep their medicaid.

Anyone here from Ohio care to comment?
Reply With Quote
Click Here for More Information

  #9  
Old 12-18-2007, 02:44 PM
HappyMommy106 HappyMommy106 is offline
Member
Join Date: Jul 2007
Posts: 127
Total Points: 7,088.44
Donate
Fran,
I am not impressed with Ohio from what I have read. If you adopt from my state, you'd get the mediaid, most likely a subsidy (if child is a minority, has sibs, or a special need), and also the child would get free in-state college tuition.
I wonder if you could adopt interstate from down my way. We have a photolisting site, PM me and I will give you the link.
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 12-18-2007, 06:24 PM
kayb's Avatar
kayb kayb is offline
Just a little crazy
Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 200
Total Points: 13,660.67
Donate
Ohio.....

Apparently, the Ohio legislation was smoking crack themselves when the let such policies go into effect.....How ridiculous!
__________________
~Kay ~
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Married to DH 10 yrs
Sweet-n-Sassy DD 6 years old
Seek-n-Destroy 18-month-old DS (Finalized Sept 2008)


Reply With Quote
  #11  
Old 12-18-2007, 10:45 PM
MomwithFive MomwithFive is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 590
Total Points: 14,158.67
Donate
<<Lots of states have Title IV-E subsidy contracts... but they still manage to place children with Medicaid!! My state is right beside Ohio, and all children with certain characteristics automatically keep their Medicaid>>

I don't understand why children who qualify for a title iv-e subsidy are not automatically offered that? Why offer a state subsidy when the child qualifies for a title-iv? I guess I don't understand.
Reply With Quote
  #12  
Old 12-19-2007, 08:41 AM
ANNWILL ANNWILL is offline
Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2005
Posts: 163
Total Points: 33,681.17
Donate
I agree with all of you from Ohio. We've looked at the website too and if you notice, when you call about these kids they are already taken. Ohio is so screwed up-especially the court system here-from what they put us through and our little one. Now were are waiting for a date for an appeal-hopfully she'll come back home-to a place where she's safe and happy
Reply With Quote
  #13  
Old 12-19-2007, 08:49 AM
kxl164 kxl164 is offline
K
Join Date: Jul 2006
Posts: 951
Total Points: 31,645.60
Donate
The law says that ALL states who use the Title-IV-E match program for Adoption Assistance funds MUST first try and place a child w/o any assistance. The needs of the child, however, are paramount so they don't have to waste efforts very long, but they HAVE to do it first, then they can open it up to all prospective families.

It only seems like Ohio is being tight-fisted because they posted it on the website. ALL states do this, some more strongly than others but they ALL do this. Sometimes it is as quick and simple as ... "Could you consider adopting this child w/o assistance?", NO, "OK then let's discuss the type of assistance you will need". Other states are more bold about or wait for longer periods of time.

States are also required to tell prospective adoptive parents about the existence of subsidies. But they try and get people to take the kids w/o it to save money. Not in any type of cruel way, but if they can get a child a good home and not have to pay assisstance money they consider that the best case senerio. The reality is that most adoptive parents can't do this and that is why adoption assistance was created in the first place, but the Federal government requires that states at least try.

Most children adopted from foster care receive assistance of some sort, (including children from OHIO) some qualify for Title-IV-E and get more but ALL states are required by law to try and find adoptive parents who will take the children w/o Assistance first, it is nothing more than the first step in a process.

It is simply the policy that came down from the FEDERAL level. The ones who give Ohio 60% of the funds for Adoption Assistance payments and Medicaid REQUIRE they do this, ALL STATES are required to do this. Ohio simply puts it out there for everyone to see, not all other states post it on a website, but ALL states are required to do this.
__________________
K
Reply With Quote
  #14  
Old 12-21-2007, 11:58 AM
Kay-Ray1's Avatar
Kay-Ray1 Kay-Ray1 is offline
Member
Join Date: Dec 2004
Posts: 118
Total Points: 6,699.38
Donate
If the boys are adopted would the parents insurance cover their medical or would it be considered pre-existing??? I have no clue how that would work.

I feel bad for those boys.
__________________
~~Karri~~
daughter age 5
son age 4
waiting for more...
Reply With Quote
  #15  
Old 12-22-2007, 05:55 AM
missw005's Avatar
missw005 missw005 is offline
Head of the Loony Bin

Join Date: Mar 2005
Posts: 1,130
Total Points: 47,209.18
Donate
First of all, the boys are no longer available. Ohio just takes forever to take them off the website. Ridiculous.

Second, I am one of the families that was being considered for the boys. I had talked to their worker before as I had been considered for another one of her kids a few months before, and she knew my situation (I can't add kids to my health insurance, and in fact am about to lose it, but luckily my sons have their own through Title IV-E).
I told her of my great desire to be considered for the boys, but just couldn't do it without the medicaid at the least - let alone the subsidy.
She did put in my homestudy, in fact I made it to the last several families that were being considered but wasn't the final family chosen, and said that they'd obviously prefer to find a family that would adopt them WITHOUT medicaid/subsidy but that they were truly looking for the best family for the boys, regardless.
Whether that's actually true or not, I don't know..............I certainly wonder if that's the reason why my family wasn't chosen...........and I guess I'll always wonder.

But I agree that I had the same reaction when they appeared on OAPL (Ohio's photolisting website) and I saw the "no medicaid/subsidy" statement. What the heck????? With their KNOWN history/issues - not even mentioning the unknown - and they're trying to place them without subsidy, medical or services???? Good grief.

But they figured the boys were young and cute enough that they'd find families who WERE willing to adopt them without it.

Many folks previously in infant/domestic adoption are now adopting from foster care/special needs when they get tired of waiting - and these folks are happily willing to adopt without assistance of any sort.
Now I've seen several babies on Ohio's photolistings that they've advertised "no medicaid/subsidy", which I feel is a direct result of those folks.

Needless to say, I've applied for some of those kids too - Lord knows I've dreamed of adopting a baby for so long!!!! (but I can't afford domestic adoption fees) But as an adoptive parent of boys with very similar issues - drug addiction/exposure, neglect, etc. - I also know what I'm getting into, and how expensive the services, meds, therapy, etc. they'll need actually are. So I agree, it's ridiculous, but with families out there willing to take special needs kids without medicaid/subsidy, the states are going to do everything in their power not to spend an extra dime on these kids.

It's maddening, disgusting, and just plain wrong.

However, as foster parents from all over the U.S., we've all seen the huge differences from state to state in daily rates, daycare expenses, formula/diapers, respite rates, clothing allowances, etc. to know that every state is out for itself - and that the kids' needs are NOT the priority.

(I'll get off my soapbox now. )

Sandy
__________________
Proud foster mama of many;
Proud transracial adoptive mama of:
J, age 9-1/2, and Q, age 7 (OMG!!!)
Still hoping for more kids.....
Nellie (the cat), adopted stray

"Friends are the family you choose."
Reply With Quote
Adopt Help Adopt Help
Want to Adopt? Click here
Adopt Help
Pregnant? Click here
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

vB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Points Per Thread View: 1.00
Points Per Thread: 15.00
Points Per Reply: 5.00


All times are GMT -7. The time now is 11:28 AM.


Click Here to Get Started