[az sun]

Hi, we are foster parents who had a wonderful little girl for over six months, she was with us from 11months. Fast forward this week and she has been ru a little over six months ago and the case is dismissed this week. So I found out mom has had enough and is dropping them of with gparents for a month or two, plus she was evicted and has no place to go. Now we know gparents and think highly of them so no issue of neglect or abuse there.
They do work so will need to put kids in childcare probably 12 hours a day.

I just dont get it! Can she not see how this will affect little D who will be two soon and has already been displaced so much.
A came into care this time last year to us, stayed over 6 months, went to mom, then mom moves, moved again and now mom moves again and leaves them with others.
We still see D so we are so conflicted. There is also another child involved we had little D's sister from birth for one month, then she was ru (seperate case from D so they returned her sooner). There mom just does not get how this move will affect them.

Is this neglect, abandonment, if protective services has dismissed case do you think they will care, am I being over protective. We will never get to adopt them, they would go to relatives so my concern is not personally motivated, I just worry how this will affect them being moved often and now basically dumped with relatives.... sigh

Also my big fear the mom ex-husband (they made her divorce him due to drug use) just got out of jail and I cant help but think its related.

Any thoughts?

[madfostermomma]

Not much more than hugs to you but I know now why maybe it's better that I dont know what has happened to my foster angel we had for 15 months. we didnt have a nice nice relationship with bio mom so once she was reunified I knew nothing. It has been 1.5 years now and in my head she is living happily ever after ( I pray to God to keep her safe or bring her back every night ) . Perhaps if I knew everything that was happening I'd be a basket case. Sometimes ignorance is bliss. I still worry but know I have to let God handle this one.