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What are the GAL's responsibilities? When I have sent fs' GAL information it seems to fall on deaf ears. What do you do if the GAL is not working to help the child? My fs has never even met his GAL and she has "been there for him" for 3.5 years??? Doesn't the GAL need to speak to the child or the foster parents to find out what is going on? If anyone knows what the GAL should be doing please let me know... And, what I should do about the GAL not talking with the child...
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Hi, the GAL has the responsibility of speaking in the best interest of the child as someone who's impartial to the case. Our foster son has had 3 assigned to his case in the last year and it's annoying to say the least. Though these people are volunteers they really need to step up to the plate sometimes. Our foster sons GAL was out a week ago today and said she'd call us back by last friday to give us info/answers to questions we had, needless to say we haven't heard from her. You wonder why these kids are let down by the system sometimes. You can petition the court for a new GAL if you're unhappy with the one you have, however that probably won't happen. The reason being is that they are volunteers and volunteer for a case, they aren't assigned them. At least that's how it works here in Florida. Good luck!
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Thank you for the info! FS has been in system for 3.5 years and his GAL has never seen or talked to him. When I try to call the GAL she does not return the phone calls...
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I have three nieces in my foster care and they have never met or talked to the GAL assigned to our case either. I have never met the guy and don't even have his name or anything. How can he supposedly be the kid's advocate.....if he hasnt' even met them or me????
Its been nine months here...and no contact. K. |
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We've only seen our FD's GAL in court. When we went to court the very first time. I was really sad to see all these people making decisions about a kid's life who most don't know the child or even know what the child looks like. Just another name. Well maybe the SW that's there but that's it. It's really sad how the system is set up.
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My grandson's GAL has never seen or spoken with him in the 2 1/2 years we have been navigating the court system. The last time we were in court I gave her a school picture with his name on the back, hoping that he would be more "real" if she had a face to go with the name.
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I've done the same thing. I've taken pictures so that everyone can see that this a real human being, a child, and not just some name or case number.....
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Adoptive Parents... Former FosterMom ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ ![]() DD-5yo...Ours FOREVER & EVER... DS-4yo...Ours FOREVER & EVER... DD-3yo...Ours FOREVER & EVER... DS-2yo... Ours FOREVER & EVER... |
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I am just SICK! I just got off the phone with the GAL's assistant. The GAL only represents the child in court - they are there for legal advise. There should be a CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) that keeps up with the day to day activities of the child and makes recommendations for what is in the best interest of the child. FS has been in care 3.5 years and doesn't have one!!!
Also, just got an email from the SW. The "old" SW said that they were working on TPR for October of 2006 (Of course that didn't happen). The new SW just emailed me and told me that TPR is not in the plan!!! This is the first I've heard about this!!!! She said that there will be no TPR at this time and the current plan is APPLA (Another Planned Permanent Living Arrangement". She went on to tell me that that meant FS will remain in foster care until age 19! WHAT?!?!?!?!? I don't get it!!! Why can't I adopt him??????
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I would tell the GAL that you will let the judge know about the involvement (or lack there of) My son's court appointed atty. would always call (in a panic) the night before a hearing to "stop by" & visit. The family court judges here frown upon uninvolved parties that should be interested in the childs best interest. From the caseworker, CASA, or lawyers - they ALL have an obligation to the child. Just a thought.
To keep a child in foster care until 19 yo is unreasonable-does the child have a court appointed atty? If not, fight for it. As foster parents we have to fight for these children (& it sounds like you are)-unfortunatly nobody else will. Last edited by bethy724 : 12-06-2006 at 02:02 PM. |
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Just for another side to things... our childrens' GAL is great. She's stuck with this family for YEARS (and trust me, with THIS family, that's some serious commitment) She came to our house after 30 days to see the children in our home... they are very familiar with her and she seems to have their best interests at heart.
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I am so sorry to hear that I could just about cry :-( I wish I knew more about the American system. I know here I'd be going to the Youth Advocate. It seems to me that there has to be SOME way to find out why they are doing this, and then you'll know how to fight it. It is just UNBELIEVABLE to me. They really, really want me to adopt or take private guardianship of A. (saves them money and trouble, right?). They CAN leave a child in "long term foster care", but only if it is an older teen who refuses to be adopted. I just can't understand why, in your case, they would not be anxious to go ahead with adoption when both you and the boy want it!!
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This is baloney. I don't know what the laws are in your state, but here in Colorado, all foster parents have a right to become what is called "intervenors" in a child's case once the child has been with them six months. If you file a petition to intervene, you'll have the right to speak to the judge, ask for TPR, and file a petition to adopt. Keeping your son in foster care for six more years---unless there is a very exceptional circumstance--is a violation of the Adoption and Safe Families Act of 1997. TPR should have happened 18 months ago. Get an attorney and MAKE THEM FOLLOW THE LAW. It'll cost a couple of thousand dollars, but it's worth it! |
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Here is what our GAL's are supposed to in my state:
Standards Governing Performance In fulfilling the duties of a Guardian ad litem (GAL), an attorney shall:
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Boy, not in Florida. I've had 4 sibs since August and haven't seen their GAL yet. I was told that a "curtesy visit" was done at the park during a visit - but by a GAL that was in the area at that particular time. I've not seen that GAL myself - she has no input from me and their assigned GAL has not met them yet. Go figure. . . .
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our last newborn 'guest' or more and 14 month old ![]() have gone to family and still Counting ![]() and doing Respite
"To every thing there is a season,
and a time to every purpose under the heaven..." Ecclesiastes 3:1
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I should have added, that I have only met the GAL through a brief introduction before court and she has NEVER met the children.
She has returned one phone call in 11 months. She is not following the standards set forth by the state, but since there is no one over-seeing the GAL's.... I was told that is just how it is sometimes. I think it is WRONG, but other than the judge, there is no one to propel the GAL into action if they do not desire to be active and simply want to rely on the information given to them by others. In our case, CASA and DSS write reports, the GAL just reads them and when we are lucky she gives an opinion of her own (which has been very appropriate so far, but still it would help if she knew who she was representing) So what do you think, should foster parents band together and push for someone the GAL's have to answer to, before we get to court and have to say soemething to the judge?
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