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Old 04-28-2006, 06:53 PM
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We've Finalised!

This past Monday in a court room full of loving and supportive friends and family, my wife and I finalised the adoption of our dear FD who is now our dear AD.

A is five and she looked so tiny in that big chair. The conversation between the magistrate and her went something like this. Miss A was speaking in the most tiny of voices.

M, "A, do you know why you're here?"
A, "Yes."

Pregnant silence

M, "Would you like to tell me why?"
A, "So they", pointing and mom and dad, "can be my mom and dad forever and so I can stay with them forever."
M, "Is that what you want?"
A, "Yes."

Not a dry eye in the house I tell you. Even the GAL was misty.

Just wanted to share our good news!


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Old 04-28-2006, 07:29 PM
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hooray! so good to read some good news!! So happy for you and your family. Hope it happens someday for us.
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Old 04-28-2006, 07:37 PM
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WOW! You even have me crying! Enjoy your life with your daughter! Congradulations!
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Old 04-28-2006, 08:37 PM
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Aaawww how awesome. Thanks for sharing : )
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Old 04-28-2006, 08:38 PM
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It was a pretty emotional day. We had a GREAT openhouse party that lasted almost 5 hours.

On the same day, our ex-caseworker helped us get a new Birth Cert in record time and by early afternoon we had an application for a passport. We're headed over-seas in June.

A told my wife this afternoon that this week was the best week ever.
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Wow Congrats!!
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That is just great! Enjoy your trip!
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Old 05-01-2006, 10:44 AM
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Talking Congratulations!!! That is just fantastic news!!!

I just love that word "forever"

Have a great trip!

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Originally Posted by MatthewS
It was a pretty emotional day. We had a GREAT openhouse party that lasted almost 5 hours.

On the same day, our ex-caseworker helped us get a new Birth Cert in record time and by early afternoon we had an application for a passport. We're headed over-seas in June.

A told my wife this afternoon that this week was the best week ever.

Congrats!! We finalized in our domestic adoption with our 8 month old on Friday. My husband said what you did - this was the best weekend since we got married 5 years ago!!!

(BTW - not a dry eye here either!!!)
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started investigating adoption - July 04
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DD born August 05 - we're chosen that same day - home in 24 hours
what an awesome baby girl!!! Wish we went right to adoption!!
WE'VE FINALIZED!!! FOREVER OURS 4/28/06

Working on domestic adoption #2 - submitted paperwork early Feb 07.....
In the Books April 1 - no foolin'!!!
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Disruption of baby girl in August - bmom decided to parent....
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Old 05-01-2006, 07:25 PM
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Thanks everybody! The first forever week has been a bit rocky--but that's what being a parent is.

We are so looking forward to our vacation next month.
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How sweet! I can't wait until that day! Congratulations! Love, Lisa
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Old 05-03-2006, 08:18 AM
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Congrads to you and yours, I wish a lifetime of happiness to you your wife and daughter.
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Congratulations! I know what a big day it is. My grandson is adopted and my 2 granddaughters are in the works??? Enjoy your new life!
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