[bjhv]

I lost my BJHV05 profile some how and cant get it back.I have tried to sign in and it wont work!

[marthavmommy]

Deb check under bfhv5 - no zero. Oh and I went over to twinflana's saturday and met her 9mos old! Omigosh she is so cute!!!!

Martha

[bjhv5]

Ha it worked I am so blonde right now

[twinflana]

Are you feeling any better today? I know colds and stomach flu are going around. My daughter has a bad sore throat but nothing else. Also S is getting a cold and I think JJ might be also. Of course I have plans to go out of town on thursday to visit family, they had better get better NOW.

Did you hear anything from placement? How did the visit go today?

[twinflana]

Martha did you hear anything about your license yet? It was so nice to meet you on Saturday. I am beginning to get worried that JJ's cousin does not want to take her. She was here Saturday evening and she told me that 1. her house isnt big enough. 2. The caseworker is not providing things as she said she would. For example the 3 year old outgrew her car seat and the caseworker was supposed to provide a new one a month ago, I felt so bad I gave her the extra one I have that is for 1 year and up. 20-40lbs.
3. She does not get the daycare completely paid for like foster parents do, she told me that the 17month old's daycare is 100 a week and JJ's would probably be like $150 a week.
4. She told the caseworker that she can never afford to adopt the children because they the stipend would end. She only receives $200 per child not $350 like we do.

Also the caseworker is ignoring both her phone calls and mine, very unlike her I really want to know what is going on because I was told I would only have JJ 2-3 months and she is 6 weeks old now.

[marthavmommy]

Oh that is sad about JJ's cousin. Wonder why they won't give relatives the same support they give us. Thanks so much for having me over. Deb? When can we all get together? Shall we come there? So you don't have to worry about the kids? Or one evening maybe you and I can ride over to twinflanas? Of course you guys are welcome here, but then both of you would need to make arrangements, (or bring lots of kids).

I do have a swimming pool, maybe we can do a swim get together?

I have my first visit with my 'family support' worker tomorrow. I think I am almost licensed.

Martha

[bjhv5]

I am still feeling so so.To top it all off my ex is starting up hios crap again so now I have to find an attorney to take him to court about child support.So that is not what I needed tonight.

I would love to get together with both of you. I know Martha you work ,I am more flexible.So lets just brain storm and see when we come up with.Martha if I bring the"crew" over your dh might run for the hills!!! lolol

I can not belive JJ's cousin might be having second thoughts.
Is she TPR'd yet?
AS for placement WELL we called and told them not to move F.We can not give up on her as long as she dosent hit anyone else.I know we can break through somehow.