[Dottie]

Hi! I am from Ar. I have 2 fg that we are thinking about adopting. The question is the age is 11 and 12 will we still get help for them. I know that 12 yr old has ODD and the 11 yr old has ADHD. I know that they will have to have therphy still to deal with all of this. I want to do what is best for them and love them dearly. But they are jealous of each other and have a hard time dealing with each other on a daily bases. I have only one bio-son and I am learning how to deal with this. I have 2 other little foster childern and the 11 is very jealous, the question I have has anyone adopted and still do foster care? I feel that once we adopt them that the 11 will not be so jealous. I just do not know if I am making the right decision for THEM. I know that the older ones has a hard time being placed. I really could use some advise.