[toosweetinside]

I was 14 and pregnant, and had no idea on what I was going to do. All I know is that I wanted my baby girl. I told noone i was pregnant till I was 7 months, Then my parents flipped out saying that i was ruining my life. I tried everything I could to keep her, but everyone turned me away...I couldn't get assistance from anyone or anywhere. My father had it all planned and that was adoption. for along time I dispised him for making me give the one person that i felt would ever really love me away. But today i feel that he was only trying to do what was best for me. Then i think of all the things i went through in the years that came after that, wow i would of never of been a good mother if i had to take her with me through all the mistakes and lessons i went threw. still to this day i have never forgotten her and sometimes i even cry for her. at this time i have 2 other children and one on the way, but they have never filled that empty space that i still have within me. i would like to meet my little girl, and if anyone could just please help me.
I think she was named Crystal Michelle, she was born Aug 5, 1985 in California. I think that the hospital was Kaiser or North hills medical center. It was in the Los Angelos Area. She was adopted to a family in Orgeon. And that is all i have to go on

[Sharon]

Hi, welcome to the forum!
You might want to repost your message in the "Search and Reunion" forum. There is a search and reunion message board for California, one for Oregon, and also message boards for each year, including one called "Born or Adopted in 1985".
I would recommend that you post your message on any or all of those boards, because the person you are looking for is much more likely to see it there... also there are many other birthmothers and adoptees in search of lost loved ones, and they will be able to offer you advice and support as you begin your search... but they may not see your post if you leave it on this board, which is a board for Foster Parent support.
Best of luck with your search!
Sincerely,Sharon

[cassondra_blue]

I was born Jan. 11, 1985 and went to school in Lincoln County KY, when i was in sixth grade there was a girl from California named Crystal who came to out school two months out of the year. One of my friends made friends with her and they are still good friends. If you would like i could have my friend check this girl out.

[toosweetinside]

Hi,
thank you for the response and yes i would like for you to look into the matter and you can respond to me at toosweetinside@yahoo.com