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Old 11-05-2009, 07:13 PM
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GRRRRR!!!! Meeting Postponed

My child's Best Interest Staffing (match meeting) was scheduled for tomorrow. I got an e-mail today at 3:30 that it was postponed until the 17th. My worker did not know why. She suggested that maybe someone had not been contacted and they then had to wait 10 days.

Unfortunately, this process has me so frustrated, it drove me nuts to read that e-mail.
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Sep 2009 - Finished D's room until she arrives
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Nov 5, 2009 - Best Interest Staffing postponed until the 17th "
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Old 11-05-2009, 08:21 PM
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So Sorry!!! I was anxiously waiting to hear about your meeting!! Thinking of you!!
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Old 11-05-2009, 08:44 PM
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Oh man! I'm so so sooooo sorry. Hopefully that person will respond quickly and maybe they can move it up from the 17th.
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Old 11-06-2009, 07:43 AM
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Hang in there We had a similar experience with the 3rd BIS we were presented in. Our FS worker didn't notify everyone she was supposed about the meeting.
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Old 11-06-2009, 12:05 PM
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so sorry, I know how aggrevating that can be. ~deep cleansing breath~
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