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Old 09-23-2009, 04:23 PM
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Matched, 1st call Friday

We had a great disclosure meeting, we are now matched to adopt a kiddo from our state photolisting. Last week I made a forever family photo album for him and last night it was presented to him by his case manager. He had a foster-sib go to a forever family so he "gets it". And now he's super excited. Very happy to have his own family, happy to have older and younger sisters, just happy. Friday we get to talk to him on the phone for the first time. I'm so excited.
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9/09 preadoptive placement from photolisting with boy T 7 y.o., placement 11/09
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Old 09-23-2009, 04:40 PM
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how exciting!!! Congrats
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Old 09-23-2009, 07:31 PM
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Congratulations! Let us know how your first meeting with him goes! It's awesome that he understands and is excited to be adopted. That may be up and down, but enjoy it now!!
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Old 09-23-2009, 08:26 PM
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That's so awesome!!! How old is he?
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Old 09-24-2009, 11:14 AM
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He's 7 and his case worker says he's excited. I'll get to meet his case worker and the adoption specialist next week. Probably a few weeks before we meet him in person.
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Fost/Adopt journey: legal risk, preadoptive placement of V 10/08, state went to reuniting 1/09, V back w/family 7/09.

9/09 preadoptive placement from photolisting with boy T 7 y.o., placement 11/09
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Old 09-24-2009, 12:30 PM
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how exciting. I think my disclosure meeting will be next week. She's 5 so I need to see if I should put a little something/photoalbum together before then or after...probably after the meeting.
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Woohoo

Awesome! Im so jealous
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Old 09-24-2009, 01:39 PM
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Congratulations!!! Keep us posted on your news!!!
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Old 09-24-2009, 01:50 PM
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thank you all for the good wishes, and Dannie - good luck w/ your disclosure meeting next week.
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Fost/Adopt journey: legal risk, preadoptive placement of V 10/08, state went to reuniting 1/09, V back w/family 7/09.

9/09 preadoptive placement from photolisting with boy T 7 y.o., placement 11/09
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Old 09-25-2009, 01:49 PM
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we had our call today, 50 minutes we talked. A lot of questions back and forth, he was just so sweet, told us that he keeps asking his foster mom when he can come to live with us, I told him it was like Christmas, it's so exciting and so hard to wait, but we should be happy we get to talk on the phone while we wait to be a family.

I'm traveling for work to the community he lives in next week but don't think they are ready for us to meet in person. I will get to meet his case worker and the adoption worker in peson, I'm hoping next week we'll have a timeline for activities, most of it is dependent on his processing of the adoption, but reports so far area really positive.

I'm just all excited I can't stand myself.
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Happy mom to 2 daughters, one by birth the other by adoption

Adoption journey: homestudy completed 7/04, signed with facilitator 11/04, matched 12/04, daughter born 2/05, adoption final 4/05

Fost/Adopt journey: legal risk, preadoptive placement of V 10/08, state went to reuniting 1/09, V back w/family 7/09.

9/09 preadoptive placement from photolisting with boy T 7 y.o., placement 11/09
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Old 09-25-2009, 02:19 PM
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that's really exciting. Enjoy this time of anticipation
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6/1/09, homestudy officially approved
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9/29/09, Selected!
10/6, appears relatives applied for ICPC

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Old 09-25-2009, 07:32 PM
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This is the best time - and the hardest to wait! But it really does go fast once the ball starts rolling so take the time to prepare now - read the books that are recommended, get the room as you want it, etc.
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Congratulations.
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Old 09-26-2009, 04:02 PM
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Great news and Congratulations! Keep us posted on your journey
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