[Perfect7]

Yes, the pictures are priceless. I thought of contacting the biofamily in the future and buying some if I have to. I just found out from the cw today that the fm HAS taken pictures, lots of them. She's seen them in photo albums. For whatever reason, she just doesn't want us to have them. Then I found out the other reason may be because she used to want to adopt him but her husband said no. DH suggested I make a CD of all the pictures we have taken of him and give them to the fm since she "has no pictures". I think I'm a little less upset knowing she cared enough to take pictures but angry that she won't let him have a piece of his history. The cw wont get involved. I think I may just be the bigger person and give her a nice photo album with all of the pictures we have taken of him, along with an open invitation to call whenever she wants to or visit. I'm trying hard to understand how hurt she must feel while not thinking of how she is placing her feelings ahead of his. Hasn't he had enough of that from the adults in his life????