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11-06-2008, 07:04 PM
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relative possibility
Quick question...
our fd has been with us 5mths. bio mom is not getting her back (caseplan stated) bio is MIA and is wanted for God knows what. Relative placement was requested. bio mom picked her nw 20yr old sister. I just found out the other day that the sister had a baby taken away from her at the age of 14. Shoudl this stand against her? It just keeps getting worse and so the the extended family, sad to say as this beautiful little girl desreves the very best upbringing.
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June 07 pre-placement classes completed August 07 contracted & sent application August 07 fingerprints/background checks/references/phsycological evaluation Sept 07 physicals/TB time test/ Oct 07 1st home visit/fire inspection/1st office visit Nov 07 each had individual interviews at office/ Jan08 2nd home visit Feb 08 1st and last office visit Homestudy complete/Thursday 27th March approved Thursday June 12th 08 first placement. 4.5mth baby girl. Not sure what the plan is but we are loving her regardless  Monday August 25th 08 second placement. 1 day old baby boy. He is so tiny and precious. We love him! 
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11-06-2008, 07:20 PM
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I should hope they won't hold what happened to her at 14 against her, she was just a child herself. I hope that if she is a suitable placement your fd can get on with getting home to auntie and if she's not that fd is able to stay with you where she is loved and happy.
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11-06-2008, 08:07 PM
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I agree--let the child not stay in "limbo" for extended time. I also hope the past will not be held against the aunt--many 20 yr olds are very responsible and capable of caring for a child.
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11-06-2008, 11:29 PM
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just found out that aunt really doesn't want the child. bio mom seemingly is asking her to take the baby. She will go to the state she is in and get her back. Like childrens services will never find that out?????? Sad thing is, if aunt is dishonest enough to take teh homestudy, pass and give herto bio mom, then we will loose this precious child to another family in another state. This makes me mad!
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June 07 pre-placement classes completed August 07 contracted & sent application August 07 fingerprints/background checks/references/phsycological evaluation Sept 07 physicals/TB time test/ Oct 07 1st home visit/fire inspection/1st office visit Nov 07 each had individual interviews at office/ Jan08 2nd home visit Feb 08 1st and last office visit Homestudy complete/Thursday 27th March approved Thursday June 12th 08 first placement. 4.5mth baby girl. Not sure what the plan is but we are loving her regardless Monday August 25th 08 second placement. 1 day old baby boy. He is so tiny and precious. We love him!
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11-07-2008, 12:12 AM
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That is so wrong! How can people treat a baby like that?! 
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