[shycar]

Well giving you all update. Im the one that has a 3 yr old fs that hopefully will adopt soon, we are at the appeal process. We have a 2yr fd and a 2 month old fd that has been with us for 1 1/2 month, they are high legal risk. Now from the beggining sw told us that the girls might go with great-grandmother. Last month they were definetly going "next week". They are still here. Then Monday sw calls and says that the girls will leave most likely this week. I cried sooo much. Well great grandparents did not show up for visit again and now its back to next week. Mean while another sw called me hoping i have room soon for two little girls, legal risk. They are planing a termination soon. They are 4 yr old and 1 yr old. I have met them before and they are darlings. They are at another legal risk home, but they are not willing to work with the older child, she has sexual behavior, and want them out by the end of next week. I have worked with sexual abuse before and am willing to work with it again. I only have three bedroom and the girls can not share rooms, but my fs is only 3 so he can share with the 1yr old girl. My emotions are all crazed up. I want the girls that I have now stay, i love them soooo much, but I dont know why I have a feeling that they were not meant to be here. They fit perfectly with us. My hubby and I joke around that the ones that fit in the family leaves and the ones that take a while to adjust are the ones that stay. Our fs took a year to start showing affection with us. We were at first not sure he fit in with us, but we kept working with him and now he is just like us and fits perfectly. We love him sooo much. Then we got a little baby boy and fell inlove from the start, a year later and he was gone. These new girls do not have any prob except for the older one have signs of sexual abuse. They have been in foster care since begining of Nov. The parents left states and sometimes comes to the state for a visit. There is a family interested, but is 80 yrs old and most likely will not pass. They already talking about termination of parents rights since the parents have done nothing to improve since november. This sw is trying to cantact the other sw and see if the girls, that are with us are leaving for sure that way we can put them in another home until they go with family and us take these other girls. I dont know, what if the grandma does not take them and they end up free to adopt, but then what if they do go and we miss the chance of these other girls. Im soo confuesed and not sure what to do. Any suggetstion pleas

thanks shycar