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Old 05-03-2004, 09:04 AM
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Crittenton Home in Charlotte

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If you or someone you know was at Crittenton home in April or May 1970 please please please respond!!!!! Thanks
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Old 05-03-2004, 12:59 PM
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I think my mom was there then I was supposly born on July 7th 1970 and my mind may have stayed there. you can email me at laughinliz@bellsouth.net thanks. libbi
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Old 05-24-2004, 07:48 PM
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yes i was there then and had a baby girl i have been searching for, for a long time now. My parents made me give her up. please write back, my name is ann.you can e-mail me at, anngell55@aol.com

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Old 07-07-2004, 01:46 PM
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My bmom stayed at FCH in charlotte NC from Jan.70 to June 70.
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Old 07-09-2004, 11:03 PM
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Hi Redbird and Tricia.I was there at that time and my daughter was born in May 1970. I do not know what agency she was sent to, my stepfather kept all that from me.I know i had her in Charlotte Hospital, she would have black hair and very dark eyes.If you need to know anymore feel free to write me. We all had fake names then so you might have a hard time finding your mother. My name was Constance Moss. I can remember a few of the girls then but not many. I hope we can help each other. Sincerely, Ann
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Old 08-12-2004, 11:31 AM
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My husband was born in Charlotte in 1966 July 4 we are having difficulties getting started on our search for his bfamily. i have found records of children born 7/4/66 in Charlotte . one mother that day had a child with no identifying father . I really am getting my hopes up here, I called Department of Social servicesin Charlotte (with no luck) what to do ?
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Old 08-13-2004, 05:37 AM
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First- was your husband's adoption facilitated by the Meck Co. DSS? If so, then your husband needs to write to them to obtain his non-id.
Mecklenburg County DSS / Youth and Family Servises
720 East 4th Street, Charlotte NC, 28202
Ruth Morris - 704/336-7389

I seriously doubt the child you were referring to born in Charlotte, without a father, is your husband. Almost all adoption related births have been expunged after about 1961 from the Meck county website.

Also, your husband is entitled to his Final Order of Adoption/ Fianl Decree. If the adoption was finalized in Charlotte, you can call Marilyn Feaster 704/336-3279, if it was finalized in another county then you need to obtain this from the clerk's office in Superior Court, in that county. It does not have any identifying info on it, but has very valuable info on it.

This should get you started. If you have more questions, let us know.
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Old 09-14-2004, 04:09 PM
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MY MOM WAS AT FLORENCE CRITTENDON IN CHARLOTTE, NC IN JULY TO AUGUST OF 1957. MECKLENBURG COUNTY DSS HANDLED MY ADOPTION WHEN I WAS 2 MONTHS OLD.
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Baby Girl Sparrow - wf- born 08-20-1957
Mother's name- Thelma Marie Sparrow, no father listed.
If you like I can go to VitalStatistics and get a copy of your original birth certificate.
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Old 09-15-2004, 03:14 PM
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I WOULD LOVE FOR YOU TO PULL MY ORIGINAL BIRTH CERTIFICATE, BUT I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN TOLD OF MY FILES BEING SEALED AND MY BIRTH CERTIFICATE WAS ALTERED. I WAS ADOPTED 2 MONTHS AFTER I WAS BORN, BUT MY BIRTH CERTIFICATE WAS NOT ISSUED UNTIL 1962. THANK YOU
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Re: Arrowbear

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Baby Girl Sparrow - wf- born 08-20-1957
Mother's name- Thelma Marie Sparrow, no father listed.
If you like I can go to VitalStatistics and get a copy of your original birth certificate.
hi how can you pull a birth certificate cause i was born 7-4-51 and was born somewhere around that area but dont know where my parents pick me and brother up in salisbury his date of birth 6-23 or24 1950 ty frances edenlady50@yahoo.com
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Old 09-16-2004, 04:54 AM
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Arrowbear - Mecklenburg county did not start removing adoption related b.c.'s until around 1960-61. So your original b.c. is still available from Meck county. The great thing about that is, it will give you clues about where your mom was living at time of birth and where she was born.
I'll try to go today if the rain (Ivan) hold off.

Edenlady - I checked the same Mecklenburg county website for you and your brother's births. I did not see anything that might be a match. Is he your biological brother? Do you know for fact that you were born in NC? Your b.c.'s are more than likely still available in the county of birth (if) it was NC. Since most counties did not remove them at that time. If you could just find out where you were born, then have someone go to that county and check for.
Good Luck to you and let me know if you have more questions. Tricia
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Old 09-16-2004, 08:00 AM
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tricia3 - Thank you so much. I have never had someone try to help me this way.
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Old 09-22-2004, 05:29 AM
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Just wanted to let you know I've not forgotten about you. I just have not had a chance to get to town, for reasons I'm sure you're not interested in.
Any who....I still plan on going....hopefully Friday. Let me know where to send your info to. ( I can't send it online, I'm having trouble uploading files )
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I have your birth certificate- if you'd like to have it, then shoot me an address. Still can't attach files to e-mail .
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