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Old 08-29-2008, 09:30 AM
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Two years ago today

Two years ago today if people had told me what my life would be like now there is no way I would have believed them. I would not have believed that my house could qualify as a natural disaster area. I would not have believed that I would willingly not sleep through the night for 2 years. I would not have believed that the look of her sleeping would melt my heart. I would not believe that I would do absolutely anything to protect her.

Two years ago today I had survived a very long cramped flight to Ethiopia. I made it, stunned, through customs and getting my visa. I exchanged money and collected my bags. I met our lawyer and then waited in the airport parking lot for a few hours while they tried desparately to fix the van. I threw my bags in my room at the guesthouse, ate a quick lunch, and took the short ride over to the orphanage. After feeling like what might turn into an eternity but in fact may have just been a few minutes, the orphanage nanny came over to me with a little girl (almost 21 months) in a cordoroy pink jumpsuit and placed her in my arms. I officially was a mama two years ago today. She was very unsure of this new arrangement and was a little like a caged animal, and of course the next day she tried to run away from me, but we have made it through the bumps of adjustment. This morning she woke up and told me that it wasn't Snow White's birthday -- I don't know where she gets these things -- curled her body around my arm, put her head on my shoulder, and said, "I love you, Mama". Everything that it took to get here was worth it.

Samantha

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Old 08-29-2008, 09:33 AM
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adoption finalized 10/21/77

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Court date 7/26/06
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Re-adoption finalized 5/16/07

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Old 08-29-2008, 10:55 AM
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Oh my goodness!! Let me be the first to say congrats!!! Amazing how the hugs now make the pain then go away, isn't it!!??

Have a great weekend!!
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started investigating adoption - July 04
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Homestudy complete April 05- "we're in the book!"
Considered May and July 05 - not chosen
DD born August 05 - we're chosen that same day - home in 24 hours
what an awesome baby girl!!! Wish we went right to adoption!!
WE'VE FINALIZED!!! FOREVER OURS 4/28/06

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In the Books April 1 - no foolin'!!!
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Disruption of baby girl in August - bmom decided to parent....
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Old 08-29-2008, 11:01 AM
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Congrats on being home two years
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We are here.
Our future son.
12/12/07 application mailed to homestudy agency
12/13/07 Contracts mailed to the adoption agency
April 16,2008 First home visit done
April 30th Second and final home study visit done
July 16,2008 Officially on the waitlist for a baby boy at #21
August 28,2008 Received FDL officially able to accept a referral.
Oct 7,2008 Officially #13 on the list
Nov 7,2008 Officially #8 on the list
Jan 6, 2009 Referral of a beautiful 6month old baby boy
Court date March 31st.
April 18,2009 Leaving for Ethiopia to bring Home Noah T.
April 20,2009 Noah Tamirat in our arms forever.
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Old 08-29-2008, 01:53 PM
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She is so beautiful....Congratulations!
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Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing is going to get better. It's not. ~Dr. Seuss

10/07 - We start home study visits, requirements, and paperwork!
12/07 - Approved to adopt.
01/28/08 - Tyler is in our arms! He is less that 48 hours old!
11/15/08 - FINALIZE in St. Louis on National Adoption Day!

06/22/09 - Maybe we should do this again?
06/25/09 - Start the official paperwork to update our home study and make Tyler a big brother.
07/13/09 - Match with a 2.5 month old baby BOY!
07/28/09 - Matty is in our arms!






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Old 08-29-2008, 08:54 PM
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WOW....2 yrs. ALREADY??!!! Time sure does fly huh??? Maybe time for #2??

Sam..she sure is growing up FAST!! Congrats to BOTH of you!!
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Bio Mom to 4... all older and on there own
Step Mom to 2... older and on there own
1-31-04 Rontae placed in our arms through domestic adoption
4-18-06 first foster placement N & J
4-18-07 TPR done for N & J
4-28-07 took gaurdianship of our grandson B
7-09-07 filed to adopt N & J
waiting for court date to adopt N & J

6-04-08 Grandson B went back to live with his mother
8-19-08 Signed the Sub. Agreement Paperwork
2-19-09 Got the call...We have a court date set to adopt!!
3-06-09 New foster placement (Skippy)
3-20-09 Adoption of N and J Finalized!!
8-28-09 Skippy moved to new foster home to be with his sibs!
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Old 08-30-2008, 12:54 PM
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You have a beautiful little girl and congratulations on two wonderful years together.
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Liliana born 4/30/07
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Began Ethiopia adoption journey 7/22/08
Homestudy interview 11/25/08
USCIS Fingerprints 12/13/08
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Wow, your beautiful DD has really grown, and that smile, what a difference 2 years made with that smile. :-)
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Old 08-30-2008, 10:45 PM
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What a great story! And my has your dd grown! She is beautiful.
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Old 08-31-2008, 05:31 AM
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Congrats!!!!!
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Ruby
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So we finally made it home 05.23.07

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WooHOOOOO!

What a journey the last 3 years have been. Glad I found my long lost sister! Can't wait to see what the next year has for both of us! You really do need to catch up to me
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She's gorgeous and your story made me smile! The journey is wonderful, isn't it?
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Old 09-15-2008, 10:05 PM
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Your daughter is the most beautiful child in the world. I think I am biased because more than anything else in the world I would love to adopt a child from Ethiopia. I hope I get to be as lucky and as blessed as you.
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