[Robinsmom]

Heparoe,
I reread your original post, and it seems to me that you have done a great deal of very brave things. To choose life for your son, was brave. Having your parents arrested, even braver. Letting go of the past and moving forward to have a wonderful family, very brave. Signing the papers was scarey, I know, but you did it and I know you must feel better for doing it. I also, was in an abusive relationship. Not my parents, but my ex husband, and I know how very difficult it is to walk away from that, to break the cycle that has become your life. I just wish that I had been as brave as you and had him thrown in jail. I know this latest step will only make for a brighter future for you and your children. I do hope your son replies. My adoption was in NYS, and believe it or not, it took very little time to locate my daughter. She was searching for me too. Perhaps your son is also. Time will tell. I am hoping for the best for you. Don't ever let anybody make you feel bad about yourself, you had little control over what happened in your life, The steps you took to get away show just how strong a person you are. We are all here for you.
Jackie,
I have always been here, just a little more quiet than I was before. You have been very busy, I took a step back to allow you to help others with your wonderful advice. I think of you often and hope you are well. I miss you.
Love,
Colleen