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Old 02-06-2008, 05:12 PM
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Reaching out...

Just reaching out for some support as my son's birthday (13th) and date of relinquishment (14th) approach.
So far I feel okay, but you never know when grief will hit you.

Thanks you guys.
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Old 02-06-2008, 06:26 PM
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My bad month is coming up and I know I will be leaning on all of you.
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Old 02-06-2008, 07:02 PM
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Thanks you two. I sure appreciate the support and really find comfort in the knowledge that we are all here for each other.
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Originally Posted by taramayrn
Just reaching out for some support as my son's birthday (13th) and date of relinquishment (14th) approach.
So far I feel okay, but you never know when grief will hit you.

Thanks you guys.

Hope I can hug you too... (((((((((((((((Tara)))))))))))))
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Old 02-06-2008, 07:05 PM
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Thank you so much Tammy. I will accept your hugs any day.

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I am here for you, just PM me!!!

Birthday month is coming up for me too, so I know how you feel
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Tara,

While we may not agree on everything in these forums, the one thing that most of us agree on is the depth of pain involved in adoption loss and grief.

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Old 02-07-2008, 07:14 AM
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Thank you all for your support. So far I feel pretty good but I think it's a good idea to have a support system lined up in case you need it.

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Old 02-11-2008, 05:35 PM
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