[cetalley]

Aww patience...what is the saying..?...(virtue)...oh yeah thats it. My take is just this one. My significant other(twins Dad)and I made the decision to relinquish. We lasted 16 1/2 yrs then divorced. Relinquishment was 85% of our split. I could never get past him not providing for us so I could keep them. All relationships have their ups and downs...patience,..divorce, job loss, anger, abuse, alcohol, drugs...just a few of the things that ,..yes even parents who choose to adopt go through. There are no guarantees, regardles of whom you are.....Make sure this is what YOU want ! Thats my rant for the day...

[DallasGirl]

Hey there,

What is important to you? I think that is what to consider. Why are you making an adoption plan? What do you hope for your child? What type of parents are you looking for? What type of openness and adoption disclosure to your child are you looking for?
These answers to the questions should help you decide what your looking for, ask to see a photo album of their family, it will tell you if this family is right for you or not.
You should feel it. IM/PM me if you have any questions or just want to bounce their answers off someone.