[bajj]

I am trying to get in touch with my oldest son's First Mom. The agency is trying to get a hold of her. We would really really like to see her before we leave the state. DS has wanted to see her for a long time.

She has my phone number, but has not used it yet. I don't have hers. I think language is a big reason she hasn't called me.

I'm praying I get a phone call soon saying yes she wants to meet. At the same time, i'm so nervous! I don't really know what to tell ds who keeps asking to see her. He wrote her a letter asking her to be at the agency picnic, and now we're moving before that.

I know I'm just rambling. I think I'd just feel better if I knew yes, we get to see her or no, we don't. That way I'd know what to tell ds and could prepare him. I am praying it's YES!!!

[loveajax]

Good luck, Bajj!!!

When is the last time you heard from DS's birth mom? I imagine it might be hard with the language barrier. I hope you do get to see her, especially since it is important to your son.

[bajj]

We saw her 3 years ago. About 5 or 6 months ago the agency called and wanted to know if it was ok if she called us direct sometime, instead of through them. We said yes.

She is very busy, I understand that. She is raising 3 boys, and having 2 myself, I know it's a lot of work! She's doing it on her own, too.

I hope she's able to set some time aside for us to all get together. I know he'd love to ses his brothers, too.

[kelceesmom]

Ani,
What a rough spot to be in. We'll keep you in thought and prayer that you are able to see her. I know DS will be disappointed but you'll be there to help him thru it.

[thanksgivingmom]

Best of luck to you Ani! I so hope you get to see her for DS's sake! What a sweet little boy to write her asking her to be at a picnic! You've got yourself one great kid there! (Well, you've got yourself TWO great kids, but you know what I mean )

I'll keep you in my thoughts!

[lahdh4]

Good luck, hope you get an answer soon.