[Volfe]

Will you fault her for looking like me, because now you do not like me and want a closed adoption?

Will you blame me when she is young and says "I hate you" to you (which kids say but really mean "I'm angry")

Will you be angry with her because she prefers her nanny to you... because she does?

What will you do if she has the tantrums of her older sister?? Which lasted until she was 11 (runs in my father's family - Irish?).

Will you force her to be right handed, instead of left, like me?

Will you help her learn to draw? Or just wonder at her ability?

Will it upset you if she's introverted like her sister, rather than "outdoorsy" like you?

Will you be able to handle her saying she wants to go visit her birthfamily... which her brother (also in an open adoption) does?


Will you tell her that we love her?