[InBlindFaith]

DD is 19 and is in her 2nd year of college. Every so often she would come by and check out my myspace profile (I have a tracker). This month she has been coming to it pretty regularly...several times a week! Even her "beau" has requested to be my friend. He hasn't told me the connection yet, but it's not difficult to figure out. Since he is in my Friends List he has been reading my blogs to DD since my blogs are locked down to friends only.

Last week she (and her beau) added themselves to the same network I'm in on Facebook. The beau has left his profile wide open whereas DD has some of it still set to private.

Is this just curiosity or is there a possiblity she might want to meet me eventually???

I can't make contact, I want her to be in control of that. She knows I want to get to know her and I think she has found the "trail of bread crumbs" I have left for her. I just wish I knew what this meant.

[wilted rose]

IBF, I think you've already answered your own question, you've left the breadcrumbs, and she 's pecking along, hopefully without any galeforce winds, best of wishes to you...
Regards,
Rose

[keds]

IBF, sounds promising! I think you're sensitive in letting her come to you and it seems like that she appreciates it. I can't speak for her but she is showing interest in getting to know about you so IMO I think she might just be interested in a meeting when she's ready. I certainly hope so. take care.

[txrnr]

She's curious, and this is the best way to get information without having to make a commitment herself. I have no doubt she will eventually want to meet you. I say that, as I know if I open the door, I'll have to step through it. I imagine she feels the same, so she has someone step through it first.

Maybe it won't be right now, but the seeds have been planted, and eventually, you'll see the results.

Hang in there. I definitely think this is a good sign!

[SilverWitch]

My DD does that also - checking my myspace all the time. I had to make it private - too many oddballs - but I noticed that while she and her honey are both private, an IP in her area - no matter where she is - is always checking on me - several times a week, sometimes a day. Is this really a good sign? We are on the outs right now cause I was stupid enough to need a breather.

[agathaj]

How does this tracker thing work? I guess that means my bdaughter may know that I spy on her myspace page as well???

[SilverWitch]

well - the tracker only tracks IP (internet provider) addresses, unless both people are using the same tracker - then it will show who.

The problem I have is while I know it is her, she is always in trouble with money and so every so often someone odd will pop up - cause she has had to change her provider again. In a day or so I see the new one appear and it starts all over.

But it only shows if they are actually using a tracker.