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Old 10-07-2008, 06:30 PM
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I am not directing this post at anyone in particular.

I know that Bmoms suffer a loss and feel that hurt for the rest of their lives. I cannot imagine how hard it must be for them after not having their child as a result of adoption. However, I have heard some Bmoms say that they would have rather an abortion if they knew how hard it would be or that they would have chosen abortion if given the choice. We all know that there is a big difference between a baby being killed and a baby being given birth to and given up for adoption. In both cases there would be pain and loss however, with abortion there is no chance of ever seeing the child alive and well and with adoption there is always hope of someday reuniting.
I have read studes where women suffer terrible loss and guilt after an abortion, sometimes years later. So I guess either choice would be a painful loss.

I do however feel that abortion would be a very selfish choice. It is like "If I can't have this baby no one can so I will just kill it" I know that sounds harsh but that is the reality. Then there are those who just want to get it overwith and get rid of the pregnancy. The thing is even though they get rid of the pregnancy the reality is they are still mothers, mothers of a now deseased baby.

What about those late term abortions where the baby is aborted yet is still alive? Those babies are left to die and there is no medical intervention to safe them. I had posted a link to a story of a woman in FL who went for one of these abortions and she saw here baby and he was alive yet they would not do anything to help him despite her begining and pleaing with them. She finally snuck a call to her friend on her cell phone to call 911 because she wanted them to save her baby. Sadly, the ambulance was not able to get there on time.
This is one of the reasons why Obama will not get my vote. He voted in favor of letting these born alive babies die by not allowing them to recieve medical intervention. Can you imagibe the horror that that mother is going to relive for the rest of her life? How much more of a blatant murder is that?

I just cannot in good conscience vote for ANYONE in favor of those issues that I as a Christian find wrong. I don't care what color the person is. If the tables were turned and there was black republican against a white democrat, I would still vote for the republican that was in agreement with my beliefs.

EZ
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