Members List Photos Events Local Adoption Support Search Arcade Reviews Membership Upgrade
Welcome to the Forums. Register
If this is your first visit, be sure to check out the FAQ. You may have to register before you can post or search: click here to proceed. To start viewing messages, select a forum below that you would like to view or click View All of Todays Posts.
Forum Categories
User Name
Password

Reply
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread Display Modes
  #1  
Old 06-17-2008, 08:22 PM
Tigger27's Avatar
Tigger27 Tigger27 is offline
"Twilight" movie (11-21)


Join Date: Feb 2005
Posts: 4,199
Total Points: 1,297,530.35
Donate
My Two Cents What is one of your worst fears?

What is one or some of your worst fears in life? Some that are not adoption related as well as some that are.

Just wondering what some of your worst fears are and if you have conquered them or not.
__________________
Anne
Forum Moderator for General Birthparent Support and Chit Chat

Firstmom to 2 beautiful daughters.
A, 3-14-03 & K, 11-21-04
Birthaunt to "Christopher Scott" 2-27-85
Here's My Story, If you'd like to read it .


Reply With Quote
   
Adoption Community Information
Become an adoption forums premium member to enjoy these Membership Benefits:
  • Remove Advertising
  • Unlimited Arcade
  • Unlimited Attachments
  • Increased PM Storage
  • Calendar Posting
  • Larger Avatars
  • Personal Page
  • Just $19.95 / yr!
Karl & Kathleen (UT)
are hoping to adopt
Karl & Kathleen hoping to adopt A Service of Adoption Profiles

  #2  
Old 06-17-2008, 09:45 PM
RavenSong RavenSong is offline
BirthMom Out of Exile
Join Date: Sep 2007
Posts: 889
Total Points: 17,553.92
Donate
I have a total phobia of rattlesnakes...they scare the heck out of me. It doesn't help that I live on acreage in the Sierra foothills, where rattlesnakes love to slither. I'm so scared of them that I don't even go hiking anymore.

On a related note, I'm not sure I'll even go swimming in the river this year. Last summer, a man who was swimming in the Yuba River was bitten on the face by a rattler who was also swimming...
__________________
~~Raven~~

What does not kill me, makes me stronger. - Friedrich Nietzsche, Twilight of the Idols, 1888
German philosopher (1844 - 1900)
Reply With Quote
  #3  
Old 06-18-2008, 04:00 AM
bromanchik's Avatar
bromanchik bromanchik is offline
bromanchik
Join Date: Jul 2002
Posts: 2,697
Total Points: 14,859.60
Donate
Spiders

and heights. (It's a good thing I am 4' 11". 6' would be too high.)
__________________
Brenda Romanchik
Insight: Open Adoption Resources & Support
Reply With Quote
  #4  
Old 06-18-2008, 04:59 AM
belleinblue1978's Avatar
belleinblue1978 belleinblue1978 is offline
You needed those when?
Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 634
Total Points: 11,324.93
Donate
Snakes and storms. I'm fine with a storm as long as I'm not home alone... home alone... I sit and panic, lol.
__________________
Just a woman trying to make her way in the world.
First mom to the amazing kiddo and daughter to two amazing moms.

Musings of a Crazed Belle

6-24-2008 Caught my first walleye with my dad, I can't out fish him yet, but he won't drive me to the fish either.
7-6-2008 Talked to my firstbrother B for the first time in three years. Now, will he call me like he said he will?
7-9&10-2008 Mom and I remodel my bedroom. Why can't anything in this house be on the plumb?
7-22-2008 Dad gets a defibulator put in, I'm sure he'll be showing everyone the bump for months, but no fishing for four weeks.
8-5-2008 A month since I talked to B and he hasn't called me back. Why am I not surprised?
8-9-2008 Liz the kitty comes to live with me. Now my house won't be so empty.
8-19-2008 I get contacts again (YAY) my teeth cleaned (YAY) and a cracked tooth repaired (BOO). The cracked tooth is from work, man I love my job.
Reply With Quote
  #5  
Old 06-18-2008, 05:55 AM
kelceesmom's Avatar
kelceesmom kelceesmom is online now
Hmm..time for a change

Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 4,086
Total Points: 802,209.18
Donate
One of my worst fears is losing all my money. It is silly but it is a fear. And spiders as I just killed a taranchula last week in my house!
__________________
Denice

Signed with Facilitator 10/04
Matched with bparents 01/05
Born 05/13/05 and home with us 05/16/05
Finalized 04/26/06







Community Moderator

Step out of your box and visit a forum you haven't been to before!
Reply With Quote
  #6  
Old 06-18-2008, 11:26 AM
Lumpkin Lumpkin is offline
Member
Join Date: Apr 2008
Posts: 123
Total Points: 4,498.77
Donate
My biggest fear - losing control. I am a control freak. I've dealt with it well over the years by figuring out how to accept minor amounts of control and learning to be happy with that. Raising kids is a challenge!

This week... Maybe my biggest fear is here
Reply With Quote
  #7  
Old 06-18-2008, 11:33 AM
Oceans Oceans is offline
Premium Member
Join Date: Dec 2007
Posts: 1,090
Total Points: 24,563.47
Donate
My biggest fear is not being able to breathe which leads to a bit of claustrophobia...
__________________
Oceans

"You are never given a wish without being given the power to make it true. You may have to work for it, however."
Illusions - The Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach

My Blog: http://roadtoreunion.wordpress.com//
Reply With Quote
  #8  
Old 06-25-2008, 10:45 PM
jalapeno's Avatar
jalapeno jalapeno is online now
Proud Mommy of Three
Join Date: Mar 2008
Posts: 205
Total Points: 8,616.87
Donate
Quote:
Originally Posted by Oceans
My biggest fear is not being able to breathe which leads to a bit of claustrophobia...

I second that! I have asthma so maybe that's why. It's so weird watching my kiddos burrow themselves into the tightest little spots. Or they'll bury themselves in the "ball pit". That would freak me out.

I have no real adoption related fears. My kids may well have issues with their adoption but I really think I can handle that. Every kid has issues with something!
__________________
DD: Born 4/06, Fost/Adopt, Home at 2 days old, Finalized at 17 months old
DS1: Born 5/07, Fost/Adopt, Bio Brother of DD, Home at 13 days old, Finalized at 9 months old
DS2: Born 9/07, Bio
Reply With Quote

  #9  
Old 06-25-2008, 11:12 PM
ucme4dk's Avatar
ucme4dk ucme4dk is offline
Ice tea for me please!
Join Date: Aug 2003
Posts: 450
Total Points: 1,304.24
Donate
Leaving my children motherless is by far my absolute biggest fear.
__________________
Sara
Proud Momma to...
Ethan 10.5, our Homegrown miracle ,
Hannah 7.5, Our Princess from Mexico , &
Abby 4 our amazing little lady, Domestic adoption, forever with us at 12 hours old...
Reply With Quote
  #10  
Old 06-26-2008, 09:05 AM
Stormster's Avatar
Stormster Stormster is online now
Premium Member
Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 2,235
Total Points: 404,293.26
Donate
Well now that I'm a mother: everything.

But for me heights, flying, earthworms (so silly!), spiders, road kill, terrorism (I have that one bad)
__________________
Domestic Fully Open Adoption

"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." - Dr. Suess
Reply With Quote
  #11  
Old 06-26-2008, 09:19 AM
loveajax loveajax is offline
Senior Member

Join Date: Aug 2006
Posts: 3,135
Total Points: 95,386.85
Donate
Clowns. I am petrified of them (and so is poor DD). Which made our recent trip to the circus literally a nightmare!!!

As I get older, I also am increasingly uncomfortable in crowds and I am a bit claustrophopic.
Reply With Quote
  #12  
Old 06-26-2008, 09:30 AM
specialk4b's Avatar
specialk4b specialk4b is offline
Elmo for President!


Join Date: Dec 2005
Posts: 3,383
Total Points: 16,416,459.01
Donate
Torture is one of my biggest fears.

I'm also afraid that I'll wake up to find my family dead. So if I wake up during the night I have to touch my hubby and my son to make sure they're breathing.
__________________

SpecialK

Community Moderator
Not-so-Angry Adoptee and Mama to one adopted from China
LID 8/10/06
Medical Conditions Checklist to Agency 6/29/07
LOI for Wei Jian Tong 12/7/07
PA 12/25/07
LOA 1/2/08
TA 1/21/08
Forever Family Day 2/18/08
Home 3/1/08
DH HunnyB




Last edited by specialk4b : 06-26-2008 at 09:56 AM.
Reply With Quote
  #13  
Old 06-26-2008, 09:44 AM
kelceesmom's Avatar
kelceesmom kelceesmom is online now
Hmm..time for a change

Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 4,086
Total Points: 802,209.18
Donate
Another huge fear for me is drowning as I almost did as a young child and still remember it very vivadly. That is why Kelcee was swimming by age one.
__________________
Denice

Signed with Facilitator 10/04
Matched with bparents 01/05
Born 05/13/05 and home with us 05/16/05
Finalized 04/26/06







Community Moderator

Step out of your box and visit a forum you haven't been to before!

Last edited by kelceesmom : 06-26-2008 at 03:33 PM.
Reply With Quote
  #14  
Old 06-26-2008, 10:43 AM
hoping4u's Avatar
hoping4u hoping4u is offline
Junior Member
Join Date: Feb 2008
Posts: 43
Total Points: 583.99
Donate
Spiders
Clowns
and walking down a set of stairs that is open in the back. I just think someone / thing will reach through the steps and grab me.
__________________
[font="Comic Sans MS"]
7/10/07 ~ Signed with agency
12/2/07 ~ Homestudy submitted
1/16/08 ~ MATCHED!!! Baby due 4/26
3/31/08 ~ Homestudy completed
4/10/08 ~ Our baby is here! It's a boy!!l
5/14/08 ~ Going to Court
5/29/08 ~ Received our "Final Decree of Adoption"
6/29/08 ~ Birth Certificate has arrived!
Reply With Quote
  #15  
Old 06-26-2008, 01:15 PM
Stormster's Avatar
Stormster Stormster is online now
Premium Member
Join Date: Oct 2006
Posts: 2,235
Total Points: 404,293.26
Donate
Did anyone see the Oprah this week that attributed phobias to past lives?
__________________
Domestic Fully Open Adoption

"Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." - Dr. Suess
Reply With Quote
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search
Display Modes
Linear Mode Linear Mode
Hybrid Mode