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Old 08-04-2006, 12:42 PM
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I have a colleague who has a family child whose parents have abandoned him and he is being taken care of by the grandparents. They would like for me and my husband to adopt the child. We are american and would very much like to adopt this child. This opportunity came to us simply because I have a colleague who is related to the child and knows they are looking for a good home in the united states for him. This would be an independent adoption. Due to divorce reasons, the parents of the child would sign him over to be adopted. He is 9. Can this be done?

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Old 08-04-2006, 02:22 PM
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Is this child in China? If so, I believe all international adoptions must go through CCAA. You are going to need to get a US entrance visa and there are strict guidelines.

http://travel.state.gov/family/adopt...untry_365.html
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Old 08-04-2006, 02:28 PM
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The child is in China.
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Old 08-04-2006, 03:52 PM
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The short answer is "no".

By Chinese adoption law, all children adopted by non-related foreigners must be referred by the China Center for Adoption Affairs in Beijing, an arm of the Chinese government.

The children must be living in an orphanage or foster care setting that is certified for international adoption. The children's paperwork must be approved by the CCAA. And the decision to assign them to specific families must be made by the CCAA. This is true whether the children are infants, older children, or children with special needs.

The reason for this strict approach is that, prior to the enactment of China's adoption law in 1992, there were some unethical adoptions. Prospective parents or their attorneys and agencies were dealing directly with birthfamilies and orphanages, bribes may have been used in some cases, and so on.

To keep things from being so freewheeling and reduce the possibility of abuses, China put in place an adoption law that eliminated private adoption by foreigners, required use of not-for-profit licensed agencies accredited by China, reduced contact between agencies/families and orphanages, and so on.

The new law helped to make China's adoption process very highly regarded by parents and agencies for its stability, well-organized process, and ethical conduct. In fact, more U.S. citizens now adopt from China than from any other country in the world.

Interestingly, the adoption law was developed in a way that mirrored Hague Convention #33, which China has just ratified and which the U.S. will ratify, possibly as soon as 1997. So don't expect any relaxing of the rules. If anything, they may become more strict.

Also remember that, even if you traveled to China and somehow got custody of the child in a back-door way, you would not be able to get a visa for him/her to enter the U.S. The U.S. will not grant a visa to a child who does not have the appropriate adoption paperwork, showing the non-profit agency used, the referral from the CCAA, and the child's documents issued by his/her province.

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Old 08-04-2006, 04:16 PM
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My husband and I are currently working with an agency, have completed our homestudy and are putting together the final pieces for our China dossier. We had not planned on skipping any legal steps, however this colleague is a native of China and only told me of the opportunity because he would like to see the child placed in a family here and so asked me if I would consider it. He said he would work with his country to enable the process. It may be that he isnt aware that it is not possible if we are not relatives.
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