A piece of my heart is missing

calimomX3 · #1 02-17-2009, 01:57 PM

Well I got the dreaded call today from ouy Foster daughters worker, she is leaving us tomorrow. I asked them to have her moved today. She is going with her siblings which is good but I hurt so much right now. Not as much for me as I do for the baby, we have been her family for 3 months and that is a long time for a new baby. She has changed so much for the better since we have had her. She has soo much going against her when we got her, she has done so much that no one thought she could and now she is leaving. Wow not sure I can continue this roller coaster of pain.

DannieAS · #2 02-17-2009, 02:52 PM

Just wanted to say that I'm really sorry

Hugsie · #3 02-17-2009, 06:50 PM

(((Hugs)))

**mommytoEli** · #4 02-17-2009, 07:20 PM

i am sorry...it is really hard to see a baby go.

so you don't worry for her too much...our soon to be ds is now 15 months. he came to live with us at 5.5 months...same kind of situation, he came here to live with his half sibling that we previously adopted. he lived in the same home for 5.5 months before coming here. he transitioned beautifully! i was really worried, because you are right, even a short time is such a long time for a little baby. i am so thankful to the family that cared for him first, but i am SO THANKFUL that he and his birth brother get to grow up together. i think that is really neat.

i am sad for the pain that your family is experiencing though. i know...it is so so difficult...i know how long you waited to have a baby in your home, and it just doesn't seem "fair" right now, does it? i hope you continue the roller coaster....when i tuck in my precious, adorable, amazing children at night...i do not ever think about all the pain we experienced in getting them here. i do keep up picutres of the newborn we fostered we were told we would be able to adopt...i know the wound is too fresh to think about this right now, but i do hope that you have a lovely picture of her...keep it, someday you will be ready to put it up and wish you had it.

trust me.

hang in there.

calimomX3 · #5 02-17-2009, 07:27 PM

thanks...I do have TONS and TONS of pics of her...Not sure I want to continue on this roller coaster, We will see. But thanks for the support

vicnric · #6 02-17-2009, 08:54 PM

Calimom~
Sending you Hugs, sorry for your loss.

Vicnric

Yash · #7 02-18-2009, 05:54 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss.

calimomX3 · #8 02-20-2009, 06:26 PM

We are done with foster care, not sure I can deal with the social workers, disfuntional bio's and the horrible system that doesnt do what is right for the kids.

Hugsie · #9 02-20-2009, 08:37 PM

Are you okay? Did something else happen? (((hugs)))

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