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Old 12-05-2008, 04:44 PM
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I don't know what to do... today we got a confirmation we will be meeting the child we were matched with next week... but my husband came home upset because he got laid off... will they still let us adopt her? he is getting on unemployment right away, and will be looking for a job all through out... this is such a huge stumbling block... he had things set up so we can do visits with our child and now if he has a new job we wont be able to do anything maybe not even visit, he will get enough unemployment that we can still afford everything but I'm just at a loss of what to do where to start and who to talk to about it... after all this time it will be so hard to not even be able to get the child we were finally matched with!
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Old 12-05-2008, 05:40 PM
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that's so frustrating. the only person who can tell you for sure is your worker, or the child's worker.
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Old 12-08-2008, 12:02 PM
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I don't see where your husband's job would come up. Your family is already approved.
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5/19/08 matched to a little baby for adoption and don't know it!

6/3/08 found out that we are matched to a baby girl!!
6/10/08 presentation meeting
6/11/08 we accept placement
6/17/08 we first meet our girlie / first trans. meeting
6/18/08 outing w/ baby / second transition meeting
6/19/08 baby home

11/06/08 Bios show up for the first time in 6 months and want to see her.
12/19/08 Bios jump ship again.
5/6/09 and 6/1/09 Bios "want" her again
7/14/09 Bios MIA and TPR hearing set for 11/12/09.....
9/29/09 possibility of a two month old baby BOY
10/8/09 BABY BOY COMES HOME!!
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