[preciouskygirl]

ANDERSON GERALD A 1962 09 18 ANDERSON MALE SAN DIEGO
RYDER GERALD A 1962 09 18 ANDERSON MALE SAN DIEGO
WARNIMONT GERALD A 1962 09 18 ANDERSON MALE SAN DIEGO

These are all your husband. Based on what I learned searching for my husbands birth parents, I have learned that if the birth mother was single the baby is listed twice, once with her last name and once with the fathers. If there are three listings, it means she was married and the father is NOT the husband. So it is my guess because of the marriage license I found that Ryder was her married/legal name, Anderson is her married name and Warnimont was the birth fathers name. I found this marriage record:
RYDER RALPH E 21 ANDERSON ARLENE E 18 1961 10 14 LOS ANGELES

This doesn't guarantee that I have found the right marriage, but it worth looking them up to see.

Here is what I found searching for the birth listings of Arlene Anderson and Ralph Ryder:

ANDERSON ARLENE ELIZABETH 1943 04 27 HIKES FEMALE LOS ANGELES

RYDER RALPH ERNEST 1940 07 08 STAKE MALE LOS ANGELES

I also found this listed on the death index, his birth date makes him about the same age as Arlene:
WARNIMONT JAMES A (DOB) 1943 02 23 LAUERMAN MALE born in IN died in SAN DIEGO (DOD) 2000 02 27 SS# (issued in CA) 552580674 age 57
As far as I can tell Ralph and Arlene are both still living.
And I have not been able to find any marriage info on James Warnimont.

Ok, so going on the premise that Ryder was her husband's name, these are the results of the search for possible half siblings:

RYDER KEITH L 1963 11 11 ANDERSON MALE LOS ANGELES
RYDER STEPHANI E 1968 03 13 ANDERSON FEMALE LOS ANGELES
RYDER GLEN E 1970 01 18 ANDERSON MALE LOS ANGELES

So I would suggest trying to locate the possible children or Ralph and Arlene. Maybe even trying to locate a obituary on James to try to locate the names of his siblings. You can't search birth info in Indiana, it isn't online and you have to write to them to request a copy, and if you don't know a name, you can't request just on a last name. You could request a copy of James' birth certificate and at least get info on his parents. An obit on his parents might give you the names of James" siblings. Since he died in California and his SS# was issued in California it is a good chance that his parents died in California as well.

I will do a little more searching on the net. If I find an address or any personal info I will send you a private message.

[22639]

All I have is a possible last name of either my birth parents or birth mother and a case file number. The adoption was finalized in 1952 in Long Beach, California (private attorney). The name I have is Newhouse and the case number is LB AD-558. My name (don't know if it is my adopted name or if I was already named) is Linda Sue (Wonders is the name of my adoptive parents) and my birthday is June 16, 1951. All I want is my birth family medical history. Can you help?

[heatr1711]

Hi...
I'm looking for someone to verify the information I have regarding my husbands adoption. We were contacted by someone (a searcher-?) with a lot of detailed information (including a phone number) but do not know how accurate the infomation is. Based on everything I have read, a phone call is not the best way to make 1st contact. Any suggestions?

DOB: 02-13-72
Van Nuys, CA
birthmom: Groneman
BF: Caya

Thanks in advance for any help you are able to offer.
...Heather

[preciouskygirl]

Try to do a reverse phone search with the number you have to get a current address.

Also when you do contact them, hold back some info so you can use it to verify they are the right person.

We recently found my husband's birth father, but he passed away before we could talk to him, so then we started searching for his family and found the birth father's ex wife. Talk about a wealth of information. Also found out my husband has a half brother by his father and the ex. But my hubby stilll wants to do a sibling DNA to confirm. So that is also an option.

There are alot of websites out there that will run DNA for you and it isn't too expensive. Also if you are on REALLY good terms with your doctor, he can run it for you. A friend of mine is getting it done by her doctor with just a mouth swab.

Just some ideas for you.

[heatr1711]

A reverse number search? That sounds like a good place to start. How do I do that? Who would we contact?

Too bad your husband's BF had passed away, but lucky you found his ex! As the years pass, I wonder if we might have the same result.

Thanks again for the suggestions!
...Heather

[preciouskygirl]

this is the ones I use, they are free:
Reverse Lookup on AnyWho
Reverse Phone Search - Switchboard.com
Perform a Reverse Phone Number Lookup on WhitePages.com

Good Luck

[Friendlysmiles68]

I need help finding my best friends daughter who was given up for adoption in 1987. She was born in Susanville, Quincy or Chester, CA. Her name at birth might have been baby girl Reed. Can you help me?

[crozgal]

Hi,
I need help finding my birth mother. I was born in El Centro, CA on January 31, 1969. I found her maiden name, which is Baca, through my own research and it was confirmed by a search angel. I know that she was born in New Mexico and was 23 years old at the time of my birth. She was unmarried and had no other children at the time. I would appreciate any help or suggestions.
Thank you.

[hjcpmeek]

My husband is still looking to find his birthparent.
He was born 5/24/78 in Granada Hills, Ca
Birth mothers last name was Martin
Birth fathers last name was Wiand

I was adopted through the LDS and they gave me no additional information. I have filed the consent forms and asked for non-id information but received nothing back....

I don't know what else to do- Last year I sent out 100+ letters to Wiand's and no one saying it was them or they knew who it was. Hired an adoption tracker and that was a wasted $600+

Please help

[MissingFamily]

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[MissingFamily]

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[midrash]

Hi. When you have a chance could you search for Michelle Lynne Chase born in LA County at Queen of Angels Hospital on October 13, 1967. Her birthmother's name was Laurel Anna Chase. BF was Robert Roland Mellinkoff. We have the same mother, but I was born after she was given up for adoption and I believe she does not know I exist. I have no info on her adoptive parents.

Thanks in advance.

[boobagley]

Originally Posted by Jen30

Hi i can look up info. for anyone born in Ca. at no charge at all.right now i'm helping my younger brother who is also adopted find his family.

I am searching for a brother and dont know where to begin. I know he was born in sacramento around 1966-1967 and I have his birth mothers name but I'm not sure if thats enough info to find anything out. If you can help me in any way I would greatly appriciate it.

Thankyou,
Heather Bagley

[bunny1959]

my name is Kathy I was born in Indio Calif 1-23-1959my birthmom is Nancey thomas Ceasar I have been trying to find her

[bunny1959]

My name is Kathy I was born in Indio Calif 1-23-1959 my Birth mother in Nancey Thomas Ceasar she was born in Appleton Wi May of 1935 I have not had any luck in finding her